Am I weird or not?

[Anonymous]

was sitting with my friend yesterday and he told me that if you grow my hair out, I will look better. so I said to him, it's like you've seen me like this, how do you know. he also looked at me strangely. and he said there was no reason not to know. he said, I imagined you this way. he said that's how he imagined me in his mind. people can create pictures in their minds. they could watch the old days live like a video. and they had inner voices. I really didn't believe it when I heard that, did I? has anyone else experienced similar things?

[DishLady]

Everyone's 5-10% weird, so... there's that. But this guy does seem very odd... not for the hair thing, but the rest of it...

While it's ok to have some imagination about what may look nice on you, the way he says it is creepy. Additionally, a guy shouldn't tell you what to do with any part of your body...

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sounds like you have a combination of aphantasia and aphasia, the inability to visualize in your head and the inability to think in words. The two often go hand in hand together.

[Avicenna]

It's not hard to imagine someone with longer or shorter hair

[Evsisa]

Yes it’s common. A lot of people can do it.

[Anonymous]

That is oddball behavior.