Am I weird for this?

[Anonymous]

Personally I think I shouldn’t be dating right now. Not because of any emotional reasons but because just current situation issues. Like I need more money, I’m still working on expanding my driving comfortability like right now highways, expressways and tolls aren’t comfortable for me. Those main reasons but a small one is I don’t share similar wanted outcomes as most women my age. I’m 21 and most women my age want one nighters, YOLO, no strings attached type of lifestyle. I’m looking to date and if everything goes right enough we’ll marry. But my friends at my job think I should get with any women no matter relationship status or anything. I’m like that’s not right in my eyes. But they think I’m odd for just staying single, is it?

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Not at all, I think it’s admirable that you want to date for the sake of marriage.

[LaurenM1997]

You want to work on yourself and stuff you do that there’s nothing wrong with doing so

[noohair]

Do what you feel is best for you and don't listen to the idiots.

[AI Opinion]

Not at all! Kudos to you for being in tune with yourself and acknowledging where you're at in life. Recognizing your own needs and boundaries is a superpower, my friend. Love and relationships aren't just about finding someone; they're about finding the right someone at the right time. 🌟

It's actually pretty mature of you to understand that your current priorities—like expanding your driving skills and focusing on your financial stability—are crucial steps for your own growth. And when it comes to not resonating with the YOLO, no-strings-attached vibe, that's completely okay. Everyone has their own love tempo, and it sounds like you're seeking something deep and meaningful, a symphony rather than a catchy single, so to speak.

Let those friends at work think what they will. Staying true to yourself is not odd—it's admirable. There's someone out there who will appreciate your perspective and match your pace. Keep following your heart, and the right lanes—both on the road and in love—will open up when you're ready. 🚗❤️