What do I do now?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend promised that he would watch a movie, have ice cream and cuddle but he has gone out drinking instead. Something better has come up obviously amd I am sitting here alone and crying. What do I do?

[Gloree]

He is not reliable. He does not take you seriously. Action speaks louder than words. Also, you may be too clingy. Dump him if he can't give a reasonable explanation. These are the signs. Don't ignore them and end up heartbroken.

[Asker]

I didn't wanna hear that but you may be right

[Gloree]

Good to know. Just be strong. I know guys. They are usually like fools for those they truly love. I am telling you from experience. So walk away if he is not ready to treat you like a princess ( I mean, consider or respect your feelings).

[Asker]

Thank you again 💓

[integrale77]

Go onto the Lovehoney web site screen grab a picture of a chastity belt and send it to him with the caption "bought this so I can go onto lockdown next time you break a promise"

[Asker]

That made me laugh so much 😂😂😂

[integrale77]

I'm glad to lift your spirits if only a little 😁

[ShadowMonarch]

Call your friends
Watch the movie
Snap a pic
Send it to him

[Asker]

I don't have any friends anymore but will watch the movie

[ShadowMonarch]

Sorry to hear that but confront him later. Or else it will inevitably happen again

[Asker]

I get that but he has done it before

[ShadowMonarch]

Look...
He has forgot that in a relationship both parties are equal not the opposite...
Either he should respect the time you made him for you or else just leave him...

[Asker]

It's more complicated than that unfortunately

[ShadowMonarch]

Hmmm...

[ShadowMonarch]

Take time and think about your situation and then think for the possible out comes...

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[xiaolian]

Guys don't keep promises, watch their actions not their words. You will get hurt if you believe what he says. Don't be needy around him or show jealousy. don't fall for their illusion.

[Asker]

It us even harder when you love them

[Markie-mark]

That's sad, what a piece of trash to leave you like that

[Asker]

I should be used to it by now tbh

[Markie-mark]

Why.

[Asker]

Because he has done it before

[Markie-mark]

Leave his ass, you don't need to be neglected for the damn bottle, let him realize what he lost when the drink won't be able to make him feel good and if your absence doesn't bother him, he never cared and you didn't deserve to put up with that

[Asker]

I have no where else to go rn

[Markie-mark]

What happened to your family, girl? If worse comes to worse, a woman's shelter would be smarter, you don't need to be neglected

[Asker]

They don't like him amd we don't really speak anymore

[Markie-mark]

You should go back, swallow the pride and realize maybe your family has a point on this guy for him to be leaving you emotionally starved

[Asker]

No they don't want me back

[Markie-mark]

Take my word and try to reconcile, try to talk, you can't have fucked things up that badly

[Asker]

No they said they don't want me back like at all

[Markie-mark]

Then woman's shelter

[Asker]

Thanks I'll have a look

[James899]

Don't cry. Please. It makes you weak. Watch that movie Alone. You are the best companion for you my dear

[Asker]

I understand that but I feel sad 😔

[James899]

Oh no. Don't feel sad. You are not alone. We are all here.

[Asker]

Thanks but in life I am alone rn

[James899]

Yep. Sorry for that. You can connect with me if u need any help.

[Asker]

Can we dm?

[James899]

Sure!

[Asker]

I sent you a follow request