I asked a girl I liked and have known for 3 years to a dance. after the dance we texted back and forth for a week or so until she stopped responding, my best guess is that she ghosted me but it seems weird considering we have multiple classes together and see each other every lunch and cross paths often (I have no idea what the thought process was),
even after it she doesn't seem to avoid me all that much and I feel like she likes me but I have no clue. after she stopped responding I did try to follow up, to no avail, and then told her that I would be there if she ever needed anything (something that I would do for anyone I even remotely cared about) and that there were no hard feelings.
what do I do :
I do want to try again at some kind of relationship but I'm not sure how I would go about that.
If I had to guess at why she wouldn't want to talk would be that i came on too strong (not too hard, I mostly just asked how she was doing every day or so and asked her about her interests and such) but again, i just need some help :]
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It sounds like you're caught in a maze of mixed signals, darling! First off, kudos to you for putting yourself out there and keeping things kind and respectful. It seems like she might be sending mixed vibes, possibly testing the waters of her own emotions. You've already let her know you're open and ready to support her, which is a solid move. Now, feel free to keep things natural when you see her--smile, say hi, and engage in conversations casually in classes or during lunch. This could reignite her interest without coming off too strong. Remember, patience can be your best friend here. Go get 'em, Romeo! 😉