Is it harder for the average looking, weird, quiet at times and shy, but friendly girl to find love?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

Okay first of all let me tell you this I can feel each and every single one of your words in so many different ways you are the perfect girl did all guys want Because of Who You Are and try to remember this each time that you go out with a guy it's because you're going to see and feel something that you're either going to like or just like it's going to make you think can you have to take all that in because one day you're going to need all of it to understand the guy of your dreams
So when you're with these guys it doesn't mean that you have to be with them it just means that you're going to have a chance to experience or learn something on who they are and how they act so somewhere down the line you will know if a guy is good for you or bad for you and that is for you you being shy and quiet that's a beautiful thing that means you have passion you have love 3rd person with a very beautiful heart as for being bullied I'm sorry you had to go through that but that was for a reason only you know what that reason is everything that that made you feel at that moment you were supposed to learn something it might be somewhere down the road there's going to be a guy that you think you fell in love with and all of a sudden you're going to have flashbacks because of his actions what he says what he does and that's your warning to get out of the relationship like I said I can feel every single one of your words you are a very beautiful person from the inside out you are like a magnet and there's bad guys that are going to click on to your magnet because you are a beautiful person and they're going to want to take from you somehow some way because of your beautiful heart that's why you have all these experiences that's why we all have all these experiences to make us a bigger better stronger person to see and feel when things are not right and to listen to ourselves without changing into coming admissible heartache person that thinks bad things are going to happen to them all the time it's not that way your destiny is to be who you are and who you want to be it's your choice don't allow the bad apples to fuck you over you are a very beautiful person you have to understand that and have that confidence to know the difference and don't let anybody give you any shit about anything you should be able to feel it see it before it's even going to happen and then you make the choice of walking away or to let it happen don't be that person be the person I see she's a beautiful person

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

To be honest being shy is a disadvantage in the dating game. That doesn´t mean you need to be loud and outgoing but people that are really quiet have it harder.
I think times harder to find love because many guys are messed up and are more interested in the online than the offline world.
I´m shy either and finding love is hard nowadays, I would recommend you to look for offline ways to get to know guys because even from male experience that the sex topic comes up way more rarely in an offline talk than online.
So that way through friends, social groups what ever it could be more meaningful.

Laila12 · Accepted Answer

I’m weird and shy, also average. I’m kind of friendly I think, also a nympho. I’ve found it super hard to find people to chat with or potentially fall in love with. I think being lesbian doesn’t help.

Anonymous · Answer

I would say so

Not because you’re less desirable, but it’s harder to find someone to fit your personality. Those that are outgoing can more easily meet more people and connect with more people, because they talk more and can open up about themselves much easier

When you’re shy it’s harder to meet more people and especially difficult for someone to get you to feel like you can be open about yourself

Berethor · Answer

You a girl, being shy is not effecting you as much.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Probably. Are you going out and doing things to meet guys?

Anonymous · Answer

If you're shy yes. Just being a woman isn't enough. You have to give a guy a reason to want you. If you don't want to get out of your comfort zone and make that happen. Expect the odds of being a d staying alone to be higher. It's just that simple.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I don't think so just be yourself there many interested im sure

Anonymous · Answer

Being shy, quiet and friendly isn't a problem. Weird could be a problem. But it's not easy to find love, lots of people these days don't want a commitment anymore, just friends with benefits, so it isn't you.

OnTheLevel · Answer

It is harder to find a guy, but once you meet him, it will be easier to keep him around.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Yes, as I can attest to it by personal experience.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Harder, yes. Impossible, No.

Slim57 · Answer

No but it is for the guy

anongirl09 · Answer

I think it is, I take myself as an example

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes it is

Fuentes · Answer

Yuppp

In_Trance · Answer

nope

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