Is it rare to find a shy beautiful girl?

What type of guys like such girls?Is it rare to find a shy beautiful girl?

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  • *raises hand I like shy girls! 🙂

    Shy and introverted people in general are highly misjudged and misunderstood. But they have a strength and character that isn't always readily seen. Their wonders aren't always easy to see right away, but getting to know them is highly worthwhile and can be deeply meaningful as well. Once they open up and share their true character, they can surprise many people. They tend to be kind, loving, caring, considerate, playful, deeply passionate and loyal, and make for great life partners.

    Some of the best people I have ever known are introverted and otherwise shy people and I would never pass up a shy girl as a potential soulmate. Ever. Shy girls are just as worthy of love as any other kind of woman. Get to know her and earn her love, and the kind of love she can give you in return can be quite deep and meaningful. Shy girls are awesome.

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  • Of course not! A shy girl can be equally or more beautiful than an outgoing girl. I suppose guys who are also shy, or guys who like girls who aren't dominant (but not necessarily submissive), tend to prefer shy girls. Tbh though, I don't think shyness is a huge factor which determines a girl's attractiveness. If I'm attracted to a girl's physical features and personality, I'm not going to care whether she's shy or outgoing. However, I tend to be more protective and take charge when I'm hanging out with a shy girl :)

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  • I think the consensus is that I'm far from beautiful, but I'm very shy.
    What you seem to suggest is that beautiful girls tend to be noticed, liked and accepted more. Thus there would be less tendency for them to be shy.
    That leads to evidence (and confirmed on GaG) that I'm quite an ugly bitch since I'm not noticed, liked or accepted. I now fear rejection and am very shy.
    Beautiful girls don't experience this. It doesn't make her immune from shyness, but it sure reduces the likelihood.

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  • Shy girls are beautiful because they keep their beauty to themselves. They don’t have that need to seek attention or flaunt their looks. I don’t think it is rare for anyone to find a girl who is shy to be beautiful. The rarity is in finding a guy who is able to see through that shyness.

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  • Simple
    Any guy but not the one you want.
    Desire vs deserve.

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  • I'd definitely date one, maybe she'll make me feel loved by a woman, finally. Unlike my ex from hell. I'm serious, she was the worst possible girlfriend to me, so I need a good girl that I can love and be loved by. Once she's comfortable around me, her shyness will be gone and we're good to go. I also have a hard time imagining a shy girl being a bad girl like my ex.

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    • It depends on type of girl that fed up with falling for same type of guy. Tbh I am breaking up with boyfriend. I decided to do it.

  • It is kinda rare yes
    But then again how much shy is shy to you?
    There are girl who will literally won't reply to a guy out of shyness, and there are girls that might reply but not much.
    But for sure a shy girl is a good thing, but not to be weak that is important, like if a guy cat call her or harass her she should not be shy, she should kick his butt.

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  • It depends on your definition of beautiful. If you want someone who could walk a runway, perfect figure and face, then yes, they are rare. If you are able to see beauty in many people, then not so rare.

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  • I've seen some, I was attracted, asked one out (that I recall at moment), but said no as had boyfriend. they often seem sweet and that is attractive. But hard to have conversation if too shy.

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  • Yes I’ve been trying for many years just to find a girl I’m attracted to and with things in common would be nice. And that she can actually participate in sports like tennis and riding a push bike. Still not found anyone yet that can do that with I’m nearly 50.

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  • Nowadays impossible. If a girl has attractive features, she posts photos constantly
    Whatever happened to Modesty and privacy
    I think it cheapens a woman's physical beauty when she displays herself to everyone

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    • These days almost all the teens and young adults take pics of themselves (regardless of how they look).

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    • Well if shy girls dont post on social media then how do u know they dont exist

    • @candycanehearts they exist, they just are very low key.
      And beautiful girls have a lot of incentive to post photos, and garner attention.

      So shy beautiful girls? its a very hard thing to find

  • Nowadays it seriously very rare. Social Media has made girls bold, which is good by all means. Only quite a few, keep a low profile and stay shy in reality as well as in social media. Those who are shy are really pretty too. I personally like girls who are shy because it takes effort to make them open up. Shy girls are mostly introverts. The happiness lies in the effort as it can be romantic, lovely and only upon building trust & understanding, the bond strengthens.

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  • Rare? Almost 90% of you are shy... and you become awkwardly shy if you are in vincinity of the guy you like. Which makes it super hard for him to take any hint and make a approach.

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    • But i practically threw myself at him. Now I've given up trying.

    • If he is not interested stop trying, stop hurting yourself.
      Go for another one.

    • That is why I was so troubled seeing him. There is this one hot woman I like. She knit me a lovely infinity scarf. But she already has a girlfriend so she was just being nice.

  • Well, Those girl usually not judge you by apperance. They more want to have someone understand them. I meet up a lot of girl they like video game, becuase we share a common interest, so it make me more easy talk to them

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  • I tend to think that the prettiest girls tend to be more shy because guys are more intimidated by them and so don't approach them

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  • No, a lot of pretty girls are shy. Usually ones who were late bloomers and never realized they're now pretty.

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  • It is indeed.
    Girls aren't shy anymore, its just matter of time they reveal themselves.😝
    Well there are guys for every type of girls, ranging from good to bad...

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  • Yeah specially single. If she’s somewhat attractive and not crazy there will be always at least 3 or 4 guys chasing her.

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  • I'm not too sure.

    If we're talking about things theoretically, then yes, as even if a beautiful girl was shy at first, she'd probably eventually lose her shyness due to all the people that approach her due to her looks.

    Plus, for the case of women in specific, they're often expected to be more submissive, and guys are expected to be the ones who approach... so a beautiful shy girl probably has a lot of guys approaching her, as opposed to a shy guy who would probably have no girls approaching him.

    It also depends on the type and level of shyness...

    Some people are shy but actually really social once you get them talking... while others are shy AND awkward as fuck, and not exactly too fun to talk to.

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  • This type of guy likes such girls. I don't know if it's rare, but modesty certainly seems rare around where I live.

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  • The two hardly mix with the social media ego bullshit into the equasion

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  • Why would the two have anything to do with the other? Of course there are beautiful people that are shy..

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  • Well if you go by the questions posted on this site then every other girl in world is shy and beautiful...

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  • Many girls are naturally attractive but aren't attention and drama whores so their overlooked. There's actually many girls like that.

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  • Everyones different so I wouldn't say its necessarily "rare." And I'd date them but it'd be a hard one because I'm also shy..

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  • For me it's kinda rare... but it's fun watching them open up over time.

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  • I like them but they are so much harder to gauge her level of interest.

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  • extremely rare like you wouldn't believe and iam actively looking

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    • Dont look for one, it will feel like it's taking forever. just be patient and you will find one, then approach her and become her friend. It will take her a while to warm up to you but it will be worth it lol

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    • @alicat2358 Being shy is not the main thing we as guys think of when we talk about "shy" girls, to me a shy girl is... well kinda shy, doesn't flirt with men or give them opportunities to approach her if she's dating someone, doesn't party or drink like her life depends on it and someone thats laid back and chill and we can hang out with without being judged every few seconds.

      Usually i dont care much about girls that are too outgoing and loud thats not what i want and i rarely if ever try getting close to such girls, girls whom i find to be more quiet and classy are the ones iam attracted to , and when i see such girls eyeing me and showing they have interest in me (happens fairly often) i then approach them either face to face or through facebook/instagram... keep in mind though, being "shy" is not what attracts us its the qualities that we "believe" Shy girls exhibits that do, but sometimes the shiest of girls turns out sl*tty af which is not good at all.

  • Shy girls are a massive turn off

    I like dominant tomboys

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  • It is rare... they’re hard to find... like playing Marco Polo with everyone blindfolded and in different pools

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  • I haven't seen or heard of anyone by that description.
    Probably other shy guys

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  • Kinda. I mean not really but at the same time a lot of people dont believe girls like that exist so... 🤗

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  • No. Many women have no concept of their own beauty; so shy women are often still beautiful.

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  • I definitely love shy girls that's a very attractive trait

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  • Umm, you're basically talking about me. She beautiful guys exist too.

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    • If i don't think i am ugly i am not modest? It's called confidence and being realistic. Why should i believe i am less or more than i actually am? I didn't say i am the pretiest or that i am perfect, i just described myself. If you feel offended then it's your problem, not mine. Please don't do that to your kids if you have them. Don't try to make them feel inferior just to look modest. Make them realise what are their good features and what are their bad features.

      If you feel threatened by someone's confidence then maybe you have some confidence issues yourself.

    • I don't know you in real life, so why would I feel offended or jealous of you?

      Basically because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so when someone says they're beautiful, that sounds a bit arrogant/cocky (the question said shy beautiful girls). Good-looking or very good-looking is one thing but beautiful?

      Also thank you for your concern, I have no issues with my confidence, I think I am self-knowledgeable. Maybe you should stop making assumptions about people you don't know.

      by the way I don't intend to have children

  • :D Gotta laugh at this one. Probably those are not the only reason someone would like you? I hope not.

    P. S. I'm kinda shy and beautiful too... At least so they tell me. Never thought that would be something that makes me stand out.

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  • In the States, yes because our culture encourages sexual aggressiveness. Abroad, there are many more shy, beautiful girls. Depends on what you're attracted to

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    • The cultural affirmation of sexually aggressive tendancies (by this I mean specifically, bringing attention to the social status of physically beautiful people, and in very superficial ways, as with cosmetics, advertising, fashion, photography, social media) in the female population of America... why do you think it happened?

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      @ClauseViter Interesting question :) Tbh, I think it's because sex sells. A woman walking out in a dress without stockings (even knee length!) was once shocking-- it got attention, both positive and negative, as well as money. Soon, the envelope began to be pushed further and further (Remember the chaos around the naked Jennifer Aniston Rolling Stone cover)? Sexual aggressiveness became "edgy" so many people copied it to get fame, money and power. Now that almost everything under the sun has been seen, I think it's almost starting to lose its effect. It's fascinating because people who are exposed to TONS of porn (both women and men, I'm not criticizing anyone) have trouble enjoying their real sex life because there is nothing exciting or unknown anymore.

  • When I was younger I was shy, and in my opinion, very beautiful!! 😜

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  • My ex likes them. Shy maybe even virgin and over 20. because she is shy not ugly. That's 100% he approaches for.

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  • I am shy and they say I am pretty so here I am lol😂

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  • I'm the opposite of shy, I'm usually the life of the party and pretty confident. Lol rip

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  • My best friend is really shy and polite. And she's really beautiful. But unfortunately, she's had guys take advantage of her in the past & its caused her to have low self esteem :/

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  • No Im shy and beautiful (according to other people) lol

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  • Not from my experience. I know many who are beautiful but shy as hell and it has nothing to do with their looks. It's not that much connected.

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  • No. . . There's a lot of pretty shy girls at my school.

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  • It is rare to find them in social settings because they wouldn't be there much.

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  • Was that a rhetorical question?

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  • I am shy not the other part though 😕

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  • das me

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  • Nope I'm right here😂

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  • Lmao probably not

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  • Me 🤷🏽‍♀️

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  • Im a shy pretty girl so it can be normal

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  • I think they don’t I’m shy and I get no dick lol

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  • Not really

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  • Nope

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