Shy and introverted people in general are highly misjudged and misunderstood. But they have a strength and character that isn't always readily seen. Their wonders aren't always easy to see right away, but getting to know them is highly worthwhile and can be deeply meaningful as well. Once they open up and share their true character, they can surprise many people. They tend to be kind, loving, caring, considerate, playful, deeply passionate and loyal, and make for great life partners.
Some of the best people I have ever known are introverted and otherwise shy people and I would never pass up a shy girl as a potential soulmate. Ever. Shy girls are just as worthy of love as any other kind of woman. Get to know her and earn her love, and the kind of love she can give you in return can be quite deep and meaningful. Shy girls are awesome.
Of course not! A shy girl can be equally or more beautiful than an outgoing girl. I suppose guys who are also shy, or guys who like girls who aren't dominant (but not necessarily submissive), tend to prefer shy girls. Tbh though, I don't think shyness is a huge factor which determines a girl's attractiveness. If I'm attracted to a girl's physical features and personality, I'm not going to care whether she's shy or outgoing. However, I tend to be more protective and take charge when I'm hanging out with a shy girl :)
I think the consensus is that I'm far from beautiful, but I'm very shy. What you seem to suggest is that beautiful girls tend to be noticed, liked and accepted more. Thus there would be less tendency for them to be shy. That leads to evidence (and confirmed on GaG) that I'm quite an ugly bitch since I'm not noticed, liked or accepted. I now fear rejection and am very shy. Beautiful girls don't experience this. It doesn't make her immune from shyness, but it sure reduces the likelihood.
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Shy girls are beautiful because they keep their beauty to themselves. They don’t have that need to seek attention or flaunt their looks. I don’t think it is rare for anyone to find a girl who is shy to be beautiful. The rarity is in finding a guy who is able to see through that shyness.
Anyway, shyness has nothing to do with confidence. It's an uncontrolled reaction for me. I don't think i lack anything or that i am less pretty than x when it's not the case. I just get nervous in some social situations. It used to be worse in the past, now i manage it a bit better.
If i don't think i am ugly i am not modest? It's called confidence and being realistic. Why should i believe i am less or more than i actually am? I didn't say i am the pretiest or that i am perfect, i just described myself. If you feel offended then it's your problem, not mine. Please don't do that to your kids if you have them. Don't try to make them feel inferior just to look modest. Make them realise what are their good features and what are their bad features.
If you feel threatened by someone's confidence then maybe you have some confidence issues yourself.
I don't know you in real life, so why would I feel offended or jealous of you?
Basically because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so when someone says they're beautiful, that sounds a bit arrogant/cocky (the question said shy beautiful girls). Good-looking or very good-looking is one thing but beautiful?
Also thank you for your concern, I have no issues with my confidence, I think I am self-knowledgeable. Maybe you should stop making assumptions about people you don't know.
If we're talking about things theoretically, then yes, as even if a beautiful girl was shy at first, she'd probably eventually lose her shyness due to all the people that approach her due to her looks.
Plus, for the case of women in specific, they're often expected to be more submissive, and guys are expected to be the ones who approach... so a beautiful shy girl probably has a lot of guys approaching her, as opposed to a shy guy who would probably have no girls approaching him.
It also depends on the type and level of shyness...
Some people are shy but actually really social once you get them talking... while others are shy AND awkward as fuck, and not exactly too fun to talk to.
I personally think that it’s possible to find a shy yet beautiful girl. 1. I know someone who is extremely shy. When I would ask her a question she would respond, just barely though.
2. She is beautifully beautiful. I also forgot to mention I like her… BUT, anyways. 3. FINALLY, the best part about her is that she doesn’t know she’s pretty. No makeup and she doesn’t try to stand out (average girls try to stand out). I honestly personally don’t care for average people. The people that stand out are the shy ones. Pretty, sweet, nice and gentle. 🥰
It is kinda rare yes But then again how much shy is shy to you? There are girl who will literally won't reply to a guy out of shyness, and there are girls that might reply but not much. But for sure a shy girl is a good thing, but not to be weak that is important, like if a guy cat call her or harass her she should not be shy, she should kick his butt.
I'd definitely date one, maybe she'll make me feel loved by a woman, finally. Unlike my ex from hell. I'm serious, she was the worst possible girlfriend to me, so I need a good girl that I can love and be loved by. Once she's comfortable around me, her shyness will be gone and we're good to go. I also have a hard time imagining a shy girl being a bad girl like my ex.
Yes I’ve been trying for many years just to find a girl I’m attracted to and with things in common would be nice. And that she can actually participate in sports like tennis and riding a push bike. Still not found anyone yet that can do that with I’m nearly 50.
In the States, yes because our culture encourages sexual aggressiveness. Abroad, there are many more shy, beautiful girls. Depends on what you're attracted to
The cultural affirmation of sexually aggressive tendancies (by this I mean specifically, bringing attention to the social status of physically beautiful people, and in very superficial ways, as with cosmetics, advertising, fashion, photography, social media) in the female population of America... why do you think it happened?
@ClauseViter Interesting question :) Tbh, I think it's because sex sells. A woman walking out in a dress without stockings (even knee length!) was once shocking-- it got attention, both positive and negative, as well as money. Soon, the envelope began to be pushed further and further (Remember the chaos around the naked Jennifer Aniston Rolling Stone cover)? Sexual aggressiveness became "edgy" so many people copied it to get fame, money and power. Now that almost everything under the sun has been seen, I think it's almost starting to lose its effect. It's fascinating because people who are exposed to TONS of porn (both women and men, I'm not criticizing anyone) have trouble enjoying their real sex life because there is nothing exciting or unknown anymore.
Nowadays it seriously very rare. Social Media has made girls bold, which is good by all means. Only quite a few, keep a low profile and stay shy in reality as well as in social media. Those who are shy are really pretty too. I personally like girls who are shy because it takes effort to make them open up. Shy girls are mostly introverts. The happiness lies in the effort as it can be romantic, lovely and only upon building trust & understanding, the bond strengthens.
It depends on your definition of beautiful. If you want someone who could walk a runway, perfect figure and face, then yes, they are rare. If you are able to see beauty in many people, then not so rare.
I've seen some, I was attracted, asked one out (that I recall at moment), but said no as had boyfriend. they often seem sweet and that is attractive. But hard to have conversation if too shy.
Nowadays impossible. If a girl has attractive features, she posts photos constantly Whatever happened to Modesty and privacy I think it cheapens a woman's physical beauty when she displays herself to everyone
@Raven_76 because she is sharing that photo with many people. Shy people generally try not to share their personal information or display themselves publicly Its not just pressing an iPhone screen it is the intent behind sharing part of yourself with many people
Rare? Almost 90% of you are shy... and you become awkwardly shy if you are in vincinity of the guy you like. Which makes it super hard for him to take any hint and make a approach.
That is why I was so troubled seeing him. There is this one hot woman I like. She knit me a lovely infinity scarf. But she already has a girlfriend so she was just being nice.
My best friend is really shy and polite. And she's really beautiful. But unfortunately, she's had guys take advantage of her in the past & its caused her to have low self esteem :/
It is indeed. Girls aren't shy anymore, its just matter of time they reveal themselves.😝 Well there are guys for every type of girls, ranging from good to bad...
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