Are you shy around beautiful girls?

[foxsquirrell]

Unfortunately yes. I am nervous around a beautiful girl, and shy.

A little bit I am yes but I still manage to talk to her

No not at all

[Sangita93]

First thing, I am a women, married for more than seven years, but I have studied clinical psychology, of men-women relationships. Men are visual, and therefore they definitely feel excitements when they see beautiful girls, but it is also said that beauty lies in the eyes of Romeo. Each one is unique, and one beautiful for someone may not so beautiful for others. There are many possible psychological reasons playing behind their shyness. Sometimes, this shyness is simply a sign of high attraction, particularly when the girl is outstanding, and guy is average in all major aspects of life – body size and shape, hight, face value, education, and earning. He can easily overcome his shortfalls if he is highly intelligent and scoring high in some field, but if he is invested for his life goals, he acts more reserved or nervous than usual. One major reason for feeling shy or nervous around beautiful women is due to a combination of fear of rejection. His reaction usually stems from a fear that they are not "good enough," leading to anxiety, social awkwardness, and overthinking the interaction. High desire to succeed at first attempt makes the chances of rejection more discouraging, and cause anxiety. Sometimes they see attractive women as superior or unapproachable, forgetting that they are people with their own insecurities. Beautiful girls too have some insecurities for their short falls for some skills. Usually, guys feel high pressure to make first move and create perfect impression, making the first interaction difficult. Low self-esteem makes them to assume they cannot attract a beautiful girl. In some cases, high attraction triggers a "fight or flight" response, leading to sweaty palms, racing hearts, and trembling, and they avoid approaching the girl.

[foxsquirrell]

Thank you for this detailed and educated response. The second reason you mentioned definitley more rings a bell with me. Fear of ejection. In particular tbh I feel ugly around an attractive girl, or at least I think that she would see me ugly. And I say to myself to be honest that she probably deserves someone better. I find this psychological hurdles practically insurmountable. I just can't fathom how I can ever approach such a girl and all along hiding my desires. Because that is what might be the real reason after all. I am to honest to lie. Because lets face it what do you think I want if I see a beautiful girl? Some 18 19 year old Eastern European beauty. How can I lie so much until I get to a mutual understanding with her that I would love to fuck her?
And when I see guys with girls I often think of them as liars too. How can they act cool?
And yes I do suffer from social anxiety in general. However I notice that I tend to be and feel better socially when I am abroad by myself.

[Master_Debator]

I'm standoffish but not because of some personal insecurity. I just have questions that need to be answered first. Why are they presenting so well?

Start to answer that one question... and the answers start to see what I see in try hard women. I approach these bad bitches with suspicion. What the fuck are they really upto?

I'll put it like this... we all know why a fat chick will wear a sweats outfit...

When you see a beautiful woman not advertising in a bikini and also wearing sweats... you don't see that shit very often. If they have it, usually, all they're going to do is flaunt it.

[aaron13547]

What are calling beautiful? Looks dont intimidate me but a good brain sure can.

Also beautiful women* a girls are cute, in my opinion, not beautiful.

[OneViewpoint]

Nope. Not at all. A lot of beautiful women are really insecure and other women treat them like shit. I've actually found that a lot of them are really nice and respond strongly to being treated well. And if she isn't interested in me, it's not the end of my world. It could be me or it could be 1,000 other reasons. I don't need a detailed explanation. People are entitled to make their own choices.

[genericname85]

i just assume they won't be sexually interested in me (which will most likely be true) and then everything becomes easy.

[queenofcardio]

Not at all.

[foxsquirrell]

Ofcourse not why would you? Are you a lesbian?