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Are pretty girls HARDER to approach?
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I guess it depends what you mean.
If you mean is: Is it harder to get up the nerve to go and talk to the more attractive women? Then the answer is an absolute "yes". Probably 80-90% of the difficulty in approaching women is being able to conquer your mental baggage and get over that inertia. The more attractive the girl is, the more it magnifies your fears and insecurities (or whatever the hell it is that makes you so reticent) and the harder it is to fight them off.
That's the way it goes. The more attractive someone is to you, the more you want them, the greater the consequence of failure, the more you get psyched out. Whenever a man approaches you, he just fought an inner battle and won.
Now if you're asking if pretty girls are harder to talk to or harder win over when you do talk to them, I don't know the answer to that.
In most cases where a guy is attracted to a girl, it never gets to that point. Most guys lose the battle and you will never even know about it. Chances are if you're even halfway attractive, you probably have at least a few "non-approaches" a day. If you're very attractive and spend time in public it might be dozens. I wonder if women think about that?
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Yeah, my jerk brain gives me a bunch of excuses. "A woman of her beauty only dates hunky guys", "I am too fat", "she probably has a boyfriend", "she will reject me"...
You know, the typical low confidence BS guys who aren't successful with women tell themselves.
Even if I just want to approach her to get to know her, and somehow we end up talking, I end up very reserved, unless she is extra friendly and is obviously interested in getting to know me too. Comfort level is everything. I think I have trust issues that are rooted in my childhood.
Either way, us guys know we shouldn't put you on a pedestal for your looks. We know that you are just like every other human, but the physical attraction and ego can overshadow rationality, at least to a certain extent. Imagine the guy's mind screaming at him "wow! wow! wow! wow!" and now he is too enamored to act properly. Hahaha! Not a good way to get to know another person is it?
Lol it seems like more and more guys in real life don't even try because "oh she's pretty, she probably has a boyfriend and a life" you have no idea how far that is from the truth. Online, guys have a liberal amount of keyboard warrior bravery... Maybe too much.
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I'm not gonna lie. they are even for me and I'm a girl who is straight 10000%
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No one's out of anyone's league even if they're hot. You need to man up and be confident, they don't know what they are missing out on. Go over there and start some chit chat. No one is out of anyone's league man, women are attracted to confidence and spontenous I'm sure even the hottest ones will be attracted.
You need to man up and show them what they are missing. Don't be no sissy boy and show them your up for a laugh. Women will laugh at anything if they see your oozing confidence.
Don't put yourself down your worth a lot more. Don't let someone who doesn't give you an opportunity to put you down if anything you show them what they lost! That's the way to roll! -
They're actually much easier to approach in my experience. They act pretty laid back because they're generally happier people. They have no need to put on a type of persona to be attractive because they're by default attractive no matter what. It's average girls who have a giant rod up their ass for the most part.
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Way easier because the average or meh ones are kinda moody... they have low sex appeal and aren't very open to chatting cause they kinda pissy from not really being happy with themselves...
The hot ones love the attention... they're used to being oogled at... You can get away with snarky comments lol... and it's easier to be bold and a bit of a jerk cause they respond better to bullshit hahahah
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Most guys are much more prone to making assumptions about beautiful girls ("she must be bitchy", "I bet she wouldn't even want to talk to me", "she's probably dating someone rich or handsome", "she gets everything in life handed on a silver platter"... the list goes on, unfortunately.
The reality is that beatiful girls have to deal with the same problems as anybody else and more often than not they have great personalities, but it's often hard to get over this self-doubt. -
Yes... but it's tough for me to approach the "simply cute" ones as well. I think even average girls, at least in my area, are really tough to approach. They don't want to know me. They barely want to talk to me. Even if they're what most guys would probably consider average.
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I think pretty girls are easier.
It's like if everyone gave you $5 every time they saw you (compliments), the next person walking up will be easily accepted.
However, if random people slapped you all the time (no compliment/disses), then they next person will be ran from, even if they were to give you a million dollars. -
I generally find that the more attractive the girl, the less likely she'll have something interesting to say.
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Hot girls are treated differently, and usually, initially, it's in a negative way. Either guys will be too shy, or over confident and cocky. It's a condition hot girls have to put up with. But they'll get more done more easy in a lot of cases.
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Pretty girls aren't hard to approach, they're just hard to impress. Men are constantly trying to sleep with them so they tend to be more selective than average looking girls.
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no... they often end up single though because guys think they will never want them. its rubbish though
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Not for me personally, but I can understand why it could be for other guys.
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Even ugly girls are hard to approach, it's not the attraction that makes it hard to approach it's more factors like if they got friends around, how well you know them and how busy you look
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I think they put you in concurency with other boys, they have more choice. They use it at their advantage. I'll do it too if i could
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Yes, definitely. Occasionally they are so pretty I can't even look at them, much less talk to them.
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for some guys, yes. Because most of the guys are less confident or very shy in approaching a hot or a above average girl.
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Becky used to lemme smash, but now she is smashing Ben, Ben is a hoe
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It's not that they are pretty that makes it harder to approach. It's the fear of rejection.
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I am average, she is hot, so... why should I bother her?
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Guys take rejection hard. Most girls don't realize that.
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Yup, because they think they are better than all men
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