My boyfriend and I don't live together and only see each other on weekends. Why would he not text me past 6 pm when we are apart?

[Anonymous]

We only see each other on weekends and we both work on weekdays. He used to text me good night or check on my every night around 8 or 9. Recently he stopped with good night texts and doesn't check on me night. His most recent text said "Love ya. Feel secure. Sending secure vibes your way." I followed with telling him I love him and sending him a funny gif. I also told him I hope he feels secure too. It is Sunday and he didn't respond. His last text was at 6 pm and it is now 10 pm

[Pyrofox]

Is expecting you to probably be sleeping o... o and wants ya to be healthy. ^w^plus guys aren't always super text happy. If you want the good night's and what not. This question really makes me wonder how insecure of the relationship are you. There has to be some level of life to relationship.

[Asker]

What do you mean by level of life?

[Pyrofox]

A healthy relationship should be more like 55 normal life to a 45 percent relationship. If you consume one another's whole lives you both won't get anywhere

[Asker]

You're saying we should not be texting each other goodnights because it means we consume each other's lives?