My boyfriend doesn’t text during the day?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I have spent the past 4 nights together, which in turn has brought our texting during the day to quite literally nothing. Maybe a text about what dinner is going to be. Should I be worried about this? It makes me feel like he’s not thinking about me during the day. I know he has access to his phone and texts during work. I guess it could be that he’ll see me tonight? I might be irrational, I’m sorry. This is my first real relationship and I don’t want to ruin it by asking him about it (and looking clingy/needy).

[LaNc3L0TT]

Nothing to be sorry about, like you said it's your fist real relationship and due to this you are overthinking (which is normal, but no need for it) because you want to do all right and you are looking same thing from your boyfriend. Just relax and don't pressure your self and him if you do you will have problem. Is he working or something? And remember people fall in love with each other when they are not around them, not with 24h texting or on 5h calls. Beginnings are hard but if you handle it well it will be "sweet" and full of nice memories to talk about later on :)

[Adam1978]

He should be working at work not entertain your needs of attention. You teach him to ignore your text at work because they are not important, so if you ever need is attention at work you won't get it. You can really only expect his attention during parts of his free time. Shouldn't you be working too?

[PrettyPriya]

I wouldn't worry. My experience has taught me that (most) guys aren't big into texting. They get bored of it. I'm engaged and my fiancé isn't a big texter. Just the way he is.

[idkwhatsreal]

Yea he’s working. I don’t answer when I’m at work. I use my phone for music at work that’s it.

[Klinklins]

Maybe he's busy. Be yourself and ask if you want to.

[Wise4myage]

My guess is he just doesn't like texting all that much, and you are over thinking it.

[In_Trance]

If you spend that much time together, why do you need to text?

[driven159]

real time together is lots better than texting