How do I move on from her?

[Anonymous]

Over the last few months I've had a crush on a girl from work but at the time she was in a relationship until a few months ago when they broke up... I recently gained enough confidence to ask her out but she ignored the message which obviously I know now she's not interested..

I can't stop thinking about her, Like everything I do I see something that reminds me of her... For example a few days ago I driving about and saw a street name that reminded me of her, Going through Instagram she pops up on the explore page thing...

And saying "Find another girl"... Isn't as easy as people say it is

[Anonymous]

Your pride has been hurt man. It feels like love I know. But know it wasn't. She wasn't what you built up in your mind. The sooner you come to terms with that the quicker you'll get over her. Because you deserve better than her. You deserve a woman who will love you and value you as much as her.

But you're allowed to feel bad right now. Just KNOW her rejection of you IS NOT an indictment of who you are. She didn't reject you! She rejected who she perceived you to be.

[Asker]

Thank you! Probably the best advice I can get on here honestly

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks man! It comes from experience I've been right where you are. And I learned this at a slower pace than you. So know you're actually ahead of the game 🙂

[ShadowMonarch]

Yeah I know your pain... mine ended after 1 year... that being said,
Get an another girl.. simple yet difficult

[Anonymous]

spend as little time with her as possible.. delete on SoMe.. and let time help you. Feelings that are not reciprocated does not last forever unless you invest in it.

[Anonymous]

It's easier said then done but it works... find someone hotter👍🏽