It’s all about looks?

[Anonymous]

Let’s face it. Girls only like guys that are very very attractive as long as their not rude and disloyal.
You’ve just got to be very very good looking and a decent guy to have good interest.

I’m attractive, tall, handsome with money. I get many matches.

Then I put a picture of this better looking. Guy with his shirt off - endless matches, matches upon matches by the second. 160+ in a DAY.

It’s all about looks.

I agree

I disagree

[Quetion]

I agree but also disagree. I mean I do like guys for their looks (most of the time), but I also like the guys who just everyone else doesn't notice. Like the ones who are kind, but no one notices them. So, I like their personality. Like at first, I liked this dude who looked shy. So, I tried talking to him on email (because I found out his name) and there was no response. He practically didn't say anything. So, I contacted him again and then said "Oops wrong person again" - I said that about twice. Then at some point I was about to quit even trying to get him to notice the emails. So, I just said "I have something to say" because I was ready to get rejected. But he responded, so I panicked and told him I had a question first, so I was about to ask if he liked anyone, but he didn't respond so I quickly changed the text to "Do you like-... math?" He sounded honest and said no. After that I started asking him more questions. And asked if he was the right person because I wasn't sure. Long story short, I guess I became his friend. At first I liked him for his looks, his introvert (sort of) personality, he seemed cold, and I just liked him for that, but once I got to know him, I stopped liking him for his looks. I know it sounds hard to believe but yeah... I liked his personality, because he wasn't like the other guys I liked before. The other guys were always approachable and nice, so it was easy to say "Hi" and they were so sociable. Unlike this guy. He was so tough to talk to, quiet, shy, and cold. But once I got to know him, he was still cold at first, but he was really a nice guy. I don't know. Looks is what attracts people and not really personality (unless you only like personality), but it's hard to find someone who just likes you for you, not for your looks (unless their your friend). But what you said is true.

[cosmosis181]

Yeah, that's the difference between girls and guys. I'm a fkboy and I always go up to girls and SWEAR I'm not a fkboy and looks don't matter to me. But then they just tilt their head, put on a flirty face that really cute and look right at me. I don't know what to do against that so I look right into their face and end up going uhhhh... UGh... the air goes out me and my jaw drops down hard and hangs. I'm like ugggh😭

[Dinklex3]

?
When it comes to dating of course looks matter.
In conjuction with good looks you need to have a good personality and be able to have a connection with them as well.

Dating on apps and the internet are based on looks.. Thats the main purpose. You see their picture then you swipe or whatever if you find them attractive. Meet people in real life instead of signing up for a dating app thats based on looks.

[UniquelyBasic]

Its usually what we see first so of course. We can't see someones personality at first glance. Looks are what draw us in and personality is what makes a relationship last ultimately. Unless you're into a trophy wife or whatever.

[Dontaaaa]

A lot of it has to do about looks, but not all of it in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Women feel sexual disgust when they imagine even talking to an unattractive man

[BarryLiverstone]

Online it’s more about looks than in person