I don’t know how to solve my problem?

[736_switch_blade]

I fall for the wrong type of guYs. I am starting to hate myself. Feeling like I’m just not good for dating. Not good enough

[Guy__]

Relationship coaches and similar professionals often say attraction is subconscious...

Meaning that there are reasons for everything.

Maybe the reason is that you've been thinking bad of yourself.
Maybe some childhood trauma or whatever, we can't just guess.

[Anonymous]

Figure out what you want in marriage. Stop going after guys who don't live up to those desires. Look at what you bring to the table; and do the things that you can to minimize the baggage and maximize the perks. If you figure out that someone isn't going to work, move on; no point wasting your time and his if you don't have a future together. Ignore your emotions, don't fall in love and hope the guy turns into the guy you want. Find the guy you want and he will turn into the guy you love. And if all else fails go for boring. Boring = happiness. Interesting = drama; and drama is the cause of all heart ache.

[JoyGirl]

Work on yourself, and the right guy will come along. As you work on yourself, you will begin to learn your worth, and you will somewhat be able to differentiate a good guy from a bad one.

[DWornock]

You are just like 90% of all young women. You reject guys within your league hoping to latch on to one of the hottest guys that will fuck you. However, they are the guys with many options and although they will fuck you, for marriage they want someone in their league and that is not you.

You will solve your problem when you realize you must stop rejecting guys within your league that will marry you; not the hottest guys that will fuck you.

[Juxtapose]

If you're not attracted to the dorks in the library who would treat you like gold then there's not much you can really do about it.

As long as you get into relationships you are going to be drawn to people who are bad for you 🤷‍♂️ I see women like you all the time who stay with guys who hit them just because the guys are "hard".

[hypojoe]

Damnit switch blade you need to get those thoughts out of your head you might be falling for the wrong guys or just live around the wrong guys you are a attractive young lady way good enough to date

[736_switch_blade]

Falling and living for the assholes

[hypojoe]

Sounds like them assholes need to grow up a bit or learn how to treat a girl right

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think we all have our own pick when it comes to choosing a partner but I'm not big on appearance when I choose a girlfriend and she doesn't have to look like a Princess or a gorgeous queen I just want a girl with a kind heart.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Unless you make the mistake of finding the wrong guy, how you ever going to know the RIGHT guy when you find him?

[EaterPeter]

Repeat these positive affirmations for a month or so.
I am good enough. I love my self. One at a time.

[EaterPeter]

Please. Thank you for like!

[EaterPeter]

One more I am good for dating.

[EaterPeter]

You know good guys are hard to come by. It takes a while to find out whether it is a good guy or not.

[EaterPeter]

First try defining who is a wrong guy for you? As what he is doing you consider wrong.

[EaterPeter]

I my self fall for wrong type of women

[motownplayer2000]

Yeah, you probably aren’t. And that’s ok. You just need to re-evaluate where you go to get your men, what you like in a man, and how you respect yourself… and then go back figure out what you want

[TallAnon]

If you want to have a chat, feel free to message me. It probably comes down to where you find them, but let's have a talk and see how this happens.

[IsoUser]

Can I just offer you a little advice? Never go into any meaningful relationship taking it upon yourself to try and " Fix " any person's issues!

[IsoUser]

I guess that I said a bit more Understanding than I should have been in that having cancer wasn't the only part of my life just a major part in it, I have been cancer free for 2 years now

[IsoUser]

AF is to send desalazizantion problems

[IsoUser]

AF is responsible for attacking AF

[one1wild00]

Try dating a little away from the guys you've been attracted to so far. You may surprise yourself.

[driven159]

Just takes time you are not going to find the perfect on right off the bat

[Adogdog]

Most girls your age fall for the wrong type of guys LOL

[jimmy2]

Sweetheart you are young just give it time and don't be so hard on yourself

[Chiarac2003]

Joy girl said it best. Work on urself.

[crossdressingrihno]

The best guys usually don't stay single long

[crossdressingrihno]

It's honestly not you

[crossdressingrihno]

You're just in what could kind of be considered a shortage

[crossdressingrihno]

You see given the kind of state the world is in right now good partners are becoming harder to find and generally don't stay single for long

[crossdressingrihno]

The best you can do is keep moving on and keep trying to find the right guy

[UniquelyBasic]

What kind of men do you fall for?

[Iron_Man]

Meet guys at church more serious people

[736_switch_blade]

Are they better?

[Iron_Man]

Of course the more grounded serious people religious

[jahaims]

Spend more time thinking and reflecting

[joeldalton]

Try the Opposite George method.

[Amur8711]

Maybe try for someone different 🤔

[soe11]

Be an optimistic.

[MrSmithee]

probably