What do I do with this problem?

[Anonymous]

Hi, so I had this friend and with her actions towards me I started to wonder If people that see me , get the vibe from me that I dont know how to defend myself which makes them say whatever they want. The friend Im talking about constantly gets irritated with me , complaining about every single thing I do , I could literally be just walking and she would have problem with it and be mean to me. One day i had enough and told her: “I’m tired and hurt with the comments you make, complaining about every single thing I do , making me feel uncomfortable around you, I would like you to stop , because it makes me not enjoy your company.” Eventhough I told her , it seemed like she did not care , because the next day she was doing the same thing all over again. I know you would probably say that if I don’t like her behaviour than I should just stop seeing her, but I just want to know for the future how to dea with this behaviour and not be seen as a person you can disrespect and be mean to without feeling bad about it. It just makes me feel small and not ready for this world if at this point I cannot even defend myself. It also hurts my pride because who the heck does she think she is to tell me this. Can anyone help me out with an advice please?

[Guy13]

Some people don’t feel bad. And, you’re still fretting over it…they knew you woukd and your face tomorrow will reveal suc. At that moment, you compounded both their Interest and Pleasure.
—Ole school word be pasty or stooge.
—Sucker might be a better fit
Enjoy your future interactions 🙃

[HateyouxD]

Sont be a fucking dick

[HateyouxD]

Dont*

[Asker]

Thank you for saying that hateyouxd , but tbh i didn't even understand what he wrote lol

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

you should always stand up of yourself and defend yourself even with the smallets words what you did was good... but you see if you dont defend yourself no one will... its not like movies , you must earn your respect by yourself , you should let those who disrespect you that its not ok to do that and show them by action they can't continue to do that , having people hating you or backbiting you is better that being disrespected at least backbiting means they fear you so relax you're doing great its just not a peaceful world out there every one want it to be peaceful so they pretend its peaceful while its not you will be attacked and your insecurities will be mocked and people will be mean to you , you should learn to stand up for yourself till it becomes a habit , it's only hard at first coz you're not used to it
it gets easier