I have been called ugly, goblin for most of my life
I have no idea about makeup or any girly things
I hate myself and I hate how I am
I need some tips on how to be prettier
please don't mock me
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. First and foremost, please know that your worth is not defined by someone else's opinion of you. It's important to prioritize self-love and self-care during times like these. Here are some tips that may help you feel better about yourself:
1. **Focus on inner beauty:** Remember that true beauty comes from within. Work on cultivating self-love, confidence, and kindness towards yourself.
2. **Self-care:** Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, whether it's reading, exercising, or spending time with loved ones.
3. **Explore your interests:** Discover hobbies or activities that make you feel fulfilled and confident. This could be anything from painting to hiking to learning a new skill.
4. **Seek support:** Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who uplift and encourage you. Consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support as you work through your feelings.
5. **Experiment with makeup and style:** If you're interested, you can explore makeup tutorials online or visit a makeup counter for personalized advice. Experimenting with makeup and fashion can be fun and empowering, but remember that it's okay to embrace your natural beauty as well.
6. **Challenge negative thoughts:** Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts about your appearance, try to challenge them with more positive and realistic perspectives. Remind yourself of your strengths and unique qualities.
7. **Practice self-compassion:** Be gentle with yourself during this challenging time. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend in a similar situation.
Remember, you are worthy of love and respect just as you are. It's okay to seek help and support as you navigate through these feelings. Take things one step at a time, and be patient and compassionate with yourself. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen.
thank you so much for your support
I will try your tips
Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Then, after you've had sufficient time to recover, find yourself another guy who's even more handsome than the other one.
but I can't attract any guy
they avoid me
You need to find someone who will love you for you and there’s plenty of guys I’m sure will go out with you as for your ex he’s an asshole
He is a Damn Loser!!! Screw HIM!!! Get Some Self Esteem as a Woman and Show Him You do Not Need Him. xxoo
It is hard but I am trying
I blocked him right away after what he said to me
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He switched on you quick, he's a clown, you just move on and don't change for anyone and mostly not him.
first, you need to see a counselor to deal with your self-loathing issues then go to a make-up store and ask for advice.
Without a picture I can’t give you advice
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