Why is he disgusted by me?

[Fzrz6455]

I clean his entire house, he says i never do anything , he calls me dirty while i am a clean person, nothing i do is good enough, im black he id too but he dated lots of white women. maybe he is secretly racist?

[Levin]

There's an issue here around boundaries.

He's an arsehole. But the issue is not that he's an arsehole.

The issue is, you don't leave the arsehole. The issue is that you take abuse from the arsehole. You have poor boundaries and let people abuse you.

[Fzrz6455]

He pursued me, he prtended to care for me love me

[boggboss]

Or maybe u have a amazing ability of staying around shit people that take advantage of u and you continue to do so thinking it will change

[Fzrz6455]

Watdo u mean

[boggboss]

All it seems u ask is about shit people in your life and how they effect u so if I was the believe its all them and not you it would show that u clearly surround yourself with people that u seem to think hate u so why

[Fzrz6455]

Why what?

[boggboss]

Why do u sourround yourself with people u think dislike u

[Fzrz6455]

I dont know

[boggboss]

So maybe u need to fix that

[DavidRaul]

Why do you care for the people who don't give a shit about you. Just Stop staying around these type of men