Why am I feeling disgusted about him?

[Anonymous]

So I've been with him for 2 years, I care and love him very much. Lately, I've beginning to feel disgusted about him, everything he does just gets me sick. He tries to have sex with me, but I don't feel that "spark" and it doesn't turn me on. I'm not sure why or what I should do. Any advice or idea of what is going on?

[paperplanes]

Wow, that's weird. Like you're literally repulsed by him? You should probably tell him how you feel, I mean in the sense that you don't feel the spark there. Maybe some time apart would do you good. But, not like a I need to stay away from you type of way. Just do something that doesn't involve him, for yourself. Maybe you feel settled or too comfertable, so you're missing excitement and adventure which you once had when things were new with him? You should really take it easy though, don't make any rash decisions. Give it time. Do you still care for him/want to be with him?

[Asker]

yeah I do feel repulsed by him & v_v I prob. do need time away from him too.I def do want to be with him, I can't stand the though of us 2 having a break-up!

[Lesliecbv]

something like that happend to a while ago with my current boyfriend. we use to see each other everyday and at one point I just couldn't be next to him for more than 2 hours I didn't want him to touch me, or sit next to him I just didn't want nothing to do with him I felt disgusted about him but we had a little break and everything went back to normal. I think you should give each other time to miss one another, and time for yourself.

[Asker]

thats how I feel, I just don't want him to be touching me at all! l0l

[Lesliecbv]

yeah I know how bad is it, and I didn't want to tell him anything because I didn't want to hurt him but if you want to fix it then take a little break and trust me everything will be better

[Brendi87]

You're way passed the honeymoon stage. The only reason I felt disgusted with my ex is because he showed his true colors and started acting like he didn't care. Also, I noticed he looked like one of my exes, and that's when I realized I wasn't attracted to him anymore.

[collegegirl14]

I think you are falling out of love with him. My friend is going through the same thing. I told her, and I think you should think about it too, and asked her that maybe they are spending to much time together and when they do spend time together, it's the same thing that they do. Maybe try and do something different, do something that you've always wanted to do together and maybe you'll get that bond back.