Why do I feel annoyed by him? I suddenly just don’t want to have anything to do with him. please read everything below. I know it’s a lot. sorry?

[Zoe9488]

few months ago we were a little close. He told me he likes me. We got close. We didn’t date but we I guess did girlfriend/boyfriend things. hold hands, he’d touch my thighs... Not too serious. Summer break started so we didn’t see each other & then i started thinking, feeling. I feel like I’m being selfish and rude or whatever but when I get a text from him “ugh 😒😣” is my reaction. Why? We did have couple arguments through text before I started feeling this way & while I developed this feeling. I Started paying close attention, more alert. I feel like he’s toxic or maybe he’s just not what im looking for. He’s so self centered. When I say “I had a bad day” he’s like “oh well mine was worse…”. When we argue on text he always just says “forget it” or whatever telling me to forget about it. When we text I feel like he’s just responding my texts not actually having a conversation with me. He says he likes me but? He always expects me to keep the conversation going literally he’s the one always responding by “oh”, “wow”, “mmm”, “ok” just dry texts. I never send dry texts. after I got tired of him expecting me to keep the conversation going I started dry texting him. I did the same he did. Oh but instead of him doing “my role” of keeping the conversation going he just started complaining/arguing. I told him my point & that I had done it on purpose. he was like oh ok & he said that he understands but yet he still dry texts & continues to expect me to play my part & keep the conversation going. I could go on & on with complaints about him, for example when he called me “weak” when I had depression & I was really mentally unstable. He kept arguing & complaining & I tried to explain what I felt & what went on in my mind & it’s basically all connected to my past so like my childhood. he kept telling me to just forget it. To forget about the past and he kept comparing it to his experience and how he used to have depression and how bad it was. opinion?

[caring__1]

It's not uncommon for people to fall in love with the concept of love, more than the actual person, especially when we're young and inexperienced. You know what you want to see in a partner, and the more reality you see from the person you're with, the more disappointed you are... when you compare the patterns you see to the patterns you expect to see.

This guy is awkward and making less than ideal decisions, but it's probably due to lack of knowledge, from lack of experience, rather than a conscious effort to push your buttons. He may grow up some day... and he may not. Adolescence is a time to explore and discover. You are learning about yourself and what works or doesn't work for you. You won't actually know until you experience these things. As you go through life, you acquire new experiences and greater understanding. Bring the knowledge forward and leave the pain in the past. Without experiences to base our choices on, we'd always wonder if our choice was truly ideal for us... whether the grass is greener elsewhere.

Going through adolescence is the hardest job you'll ever have. Being the parent of an adolescent is the second hardest job you'll ever have. Every experience is different, so there is no one size fits all answer. Learn to be observant, and pay attention to what truly works for you. It may be a bumpy road, but I hope you'll like where you end up.

[akidbyheart]

The best things to do is to speak about what you both deeply want in life on the long run. Comparability is the logical side of being in the right relationship.

[Finchie40]

Move on from him , he sounds like he is selfish and toxic , he doesn’t truly value you he values himself , he only likes the convenience of you but he is truly not into you , Do yourself a favor and move on from him and eventually you will find someone that truly values you and appreciates you

[WhitneySnow]

He sounds selfish and toxic. Block him and move on.

[Nikki1989]

He is not worth your time. Move on.

[SnowedIn]

If @WhitneySnow says to block him and move on, that's exactly what you should do.

Follow that advice.

[DerekC321]

I would cut him off and move on.

[In_Trance]

Move on