few months ago we were a little close. He told me he likes me. We got close. We didn’t date but we I guess did girlfriend/boyfriend things. hold hands, he’d touch my thighs... Not too serious. Summer break started so we didn’t see each other & then i started thinking, feeling. I feel like I’m being selfish and rude or whatever but when I get a text from him “ugh 😒😣” is my reaction. Why? We did have couple arguments through text before I started feeling this way & while I developed this feeling. I Started paying close attention, more alert. I feel like he’s toxic or maybe he’s just not what im looking for. He’s so self centered. When I say “I had a bad day” he’s like “oh well mine was worse…”. When we argue on text he always just says “forget it” or whatever telling me to forget about it. When we text I feel like he’s just responding my texts not actually having a conversation with me. He says he likes me but? He always expects me to keep the conversation going literally he’s the one always responding by “oh”, “wow”, “mmm”, “ok” just dry texts. I never send dry texts. after I got tired of him expecting me to keep the conversation going I started dry texting him. I did the same he did. Oh but instead of him doing “my role” of keeping the conversation going he just started complaining/arguing. I told him my point & that I had done it on purpose. he was like oh ok & he said that he understands but yet he still dry texts & continues to expect me to play my part & keep the conversation going. I could go on & on with complaints about him, for example when he called me “weak” when I had depression & I was really mentally unstable. He kept arguing & complaining & I tried to explain what I felt & what went on in my mind & it’s basically all connected to my past so like my childhood. he kept telling me to just forget it. To forget about the past and he kept comparing it to his experience and how he used to have depression and how bad it was. opinion?
Why do I feel annoyed by him? I suddenly just don’t want to have anything to do with him. please read everything below. I know it’s a lot. sorry?
