Men, would you lose interest in your girlfriend if you were always the one to text first?

[Anonymous]

If she rarely texts first

[Novacane]

I wouldn't say I would lose interest in that aspect but it would make me disassociate if that makes sense. For example, if you are always the one to text first at some point you might feel like a burden, kind of like when you always text your friends first but when you dont text them they dont text you as well. So at some point, you will start to think if they even like you because they dont give off that energy, but that can usually be dealt with in a conversation about it. If a man knows that's how his girlfriend is then he would understand.

[razelove]

If texting was the only means of planning to go out or meet up, most definitely. I mean, I'd be annoyed by it and bring it up first. If no solution was coming through, it's a crappy power play that brings about a crappier feeling to have unreciprocated love, care, attention.

So I'd be talking to girls who do want to talk to me and moving forwards from there. Logically the other girl isn't going to care, so jump from a sinking ship into the sea.

[TheLoneTerran]

It is annoying being the one having to initiate everything. If she doesn't ever even reach out to say hi or anything, then I don't think the two of you are actually together. The other party needs to show interest too.

[DaySpring]

In my experience, it's a red flag regardless of whether this is happening unconsciously or consciously.

[secret-admirer-perv]

No, shit is she look fine it’d take a lot to lose interest. But I wouldn’t be texting her shit otero than, “can you cash app me?” Lol

[Juxtapose]

Yeah, it shows that she has no initiation and relationships where the other person has no initiation is boring as fuck. I'm not a super dom, I lean more on the sub side if anything so give me stimulation!

[GingerGuy]

It wouldn't be a good thing. You also have to show interest back, and that's one way to do it. Just like how you'd feel if he never did to you.

[kinggeorge007]

Yeah definitely. If she doesn't start a conversation, that's a big red flag. That means she doesn't need you or ignores my existence. So why should I keep my interest in her anymore?

[Nawlins34]

Yes.

I'm the prize as well. If it's one-way, it'll stop shortly.

[bamesjond0069]

Our relationship would be over because id just not text sometimes and if she never did then... bump into her at the grocery store in a year would be the next time we talk.

[Adronicus]

Yes, I'm always analyzing how much I'm investing & vice versa; if it's not close to even I walk.

[Anonymous]

Might be. If she doesn't show interest and passion for me.

[NathanDavis]

nope, it would not matter to me at all...

[ArtemisSilver]

I'd probably think she's not into me

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Yea it seems like he is annoying to her

[jahaims]

Communication should be 50/50

[Anonymous]

It would tell me she isn't very interested.

[Baylay]

Yeah it's a red flag

[Crankor]

Yup.

[Slim57]

Yes I would