Girls, Have you ever dated a guy who was pursuing you for over a year?

[Anonymous]

So ladies, have you ever seen a guy chase you for over a year, then decided to give him a shot? That happened with my sister, and she said that she has never been happier and wished she gave him a chance earlier.

So have you ever given a guy a chance after a long time? And if so why did you see after a year he was a guy worth dating?

[Anonymous]

A guy chased me for 5 years and when we kissed we had no spark. He started acting different and a little ruder, and he was extremely nice to me for the entire 5 years. He asked to go on a date and I told him I couldn’t that day. He stopped chasing me and speaking to me.
Guys like that I think just likes the chase


Kinda the same thing happened with a guy I was dating for a few months. When ever I showed him I was really interested he pulled away and then once I get distant, he came back around and tried to get my attention. Once I gave him my attention he disappeared.

[Asker]

Oh yes I see, that seems to happen more often then it should. It’s like a game of push and pull lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yes and very lame

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There’s been a guy pursuing me for over 16 years, I liked him in childhood and he’s said he won’t marry anyone else but me, he contacts me every now and then to check if I am single and willing to give it a try.

I really liked him in childhood, from 9-14 but he’s changed a lot, with personality and looks, I cherish the memory of that boy I loved but I don’t find him interesting anymore.

If you’ve been chasing her for over a year, maybe it’s time to look somewhere else.

[Asker]

What if you occasionally kissed or hooked up? Would you give up after a year?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t do hook ups.

Do you mean she sleeps with you occasionally?

[Asker]

Well I’ve had experiences with girls myself that I would be chasing a girl, but it seems like she would “hook up” with me every so often but never commit even though I knew she liked me. I gave up with one of the girls after a year or more cause I wanted to date her but she would hook up with me like once a month or something. But when I stopped texting her she got upset lol

[jennifer_bloom]

I had that happen only once and as soon as I stopped avoiding him, he lost interest in me, cause I was not the person he built me up as being in his mind.

[Asker]

So when you gave him a chance he decided after all that time pursuing you he didn’t like you or you weren’t what he thought?

[jennifer_bloom]

This was in high school and I hated his guts cause he tried to sleep with me and for over a year he would try to sexually flirt with me which made me hate him even more and than I decided Jesus would not want me to hate him so I tried to accept him as a friend during a family party and he talked to me less than 10 minutes and left to hang out with other people, he never lied me, just wanted me to validate his confidence cause I rejected him and when I stopped hating him, I was no longer unattainable and high status in his eyes.

[Anonymous]

Its not worth it. I've never seen this situation go well lol

[Rebecka33]

Yep definetely

[Asker]

What cause you to change your mind and give the person a shot?

[Rebecka33]

Circumstances

[Anonymous]

Guilty

[Asker]

How did it go? And what made you change your mind about giving the guys a shot?

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't fall in love.