How to ask a girl if everything is ok between us?

[badg96]

She has started to avoid having sex with me, responds to my messages with short replies. And it's already the second time I try to arrange something with her and she gives me an excuse

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We are friends with benefits

[Little_Bumblebee]

You can do it just like that
"Hey, is everything okay between us? "

Maybe add some comedy - (just saying this cause I'm in a mood)
"I've noticed you haven't booked dinner for your favorite meal (me), is everything okay?"

Or maybe "Is something going on?"
(cause maybe there's a personal issue, or maybe she's trying to create some distance cause feelings - or because she's starting to date or whatever)

[badg96]

the other day she said she didn't want to have sex for a long time with the same man because she didn't want to develop an emotional connection, because she was still hurt by her old boyfriend

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah, well that sounds like a pretty good reason and explanation to her actions

[badg96]

Do you think I'll leave her alone? I really like her

[Little_Bumblebee]

If you really like her, then why are you just fuck buddies? Why not try to do something about it?

[badg96]

She already said that she didn't want anything serious now with any man because she was hurt by her old boyfriend. but i never declared myself to her. Do you think I tell her the truth? that I really like her

[Little_Bumblebee]

Seems like a messy situation. I don't know what would be best here. If she's not ready to be with someone emotionally, then pushing the issue of your feelings, can very well do more harm and damage than good.
But I don't know her, you or either of your situation.

[badg96]

so it would be better to get away from her? i'm suffering a lot i don't like the situation i'm in

[badg96]

a little while ago, I tried to arrange something with her and she said she didn't know if she could

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't know.
Talk with her about it.
But at the end of the day, this is your life, and I'm just a stranger on the internet.

[badg96]

It's bad if I talk to her about it by text

[Little_Bumblebee]

Always best face-to-face with these kind of things

[badg96]

I couldn't take it and declared myself by text and said it was better to give us a break. and she sent me these emojis:😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️. what the last emoji meaning?

[Little_Bumblebee]

My phone just show the crying emoji, the one without a mouth and a white box

[badg96]

yes she send thsi 2 emojis. this is the last emoji:https://emojipedia. org/face-in-clouds/

[badg96]

and she said i had to start expressing my feelings more and not keep it to myself. she not like me

[Little_Bumblebee]

I have no idea honestly

[aminmahdi]

smile. have to know how to say that.
asking interesting and nice questions & ...

[badg96]

Asking this by message is better, no?

[Fireguy17]

Simply ask her, that is the best way to find anything out.

[boggboss]

Just ask her