Should I ask her How she feels about our relationship?

[Anonymous]

So I am currently in a LDR We met on a social media platform. I followed her, She followed back. Slid into DMs & The rest is history. Truthfully we did not talk about getting into a relationship We just made it happen. We have been going for 10 months now. FYI we do not face time /Skype. We communicate on the social media platform we meet on & use. We talk everyday. We tell each other Goodmorning, Have a good day, We check up on each other regularly to see how Both our day is going. We do our check ins to make sure we are getting home safe. We send each other pics & videos of what we are doing. There is days that we don’t hear from each other at all & Not all the time we both get a goodnight message But we are always thinking about each other & always on each other’s minds at the end of the day FYI also we are both busy people. But she is way busier than me. We always make the time for each other when we can. That’s all that matters at the end of the day. FYI again, We have yet to meet in person, & We make a year in 2 months. Should I ask her how she feels about everything & what is our next step to our relationship?

[Guy13]

Have you even kissed yet or is this an electronic relationship ❓

[Asker]

No we haven’t We send kisses/blow kisses when we do videos Or use emojis

[Guy13]

That’s going to blow up if you don’t take the Time, 💰, and planning that she is not wasting her Time.,
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TLC-90 day fiancé‼️‼️‼️

[Asker]

We’re just going with the flow & taking whatever life is giving rn

[Iron_Man]

Sure you can ask her how far do you live from each other

[Asker]

We both live in different states

[Iron_Man]

That’s not that bad you can meet in person somebody can fly to somebody

[Asker]

Eventually that will Happen We still need to talk about it

[Iron_Man]

Good

[Anonymous]

Just be aware she is probably talking to multiple guys.

[Asker]

You really think so? Can’t say for sure. I trust her enough that she isn’t doing any of those things.

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Asker]

Please elaborate

[In_Trance]

What do you need elaborated?

[Asker]

As in why I shouldn’t ask my girlfriend how she feels about the relationship

[In_Trance]

Two things

First is I think when people ask questions like this or say "what are we", shows how out of touch you are with each other. If you know where you stand you'll know exactly where you're headed and you'll never need to ask.

Second point and you can take it for what it's worth, is the fact that you're not actually in a relationship when you've never met face to face. You reference time periods where neither of you talk or communicate. I can almost guarantee she's seeing someone else

[Asker]

Thanks for the feedback & I have to stop you right there. We don’t need to ask each other “What are we” Cause we are in fact a thing. & we most definitely are in a relationship. You don’t need to ask someone to be your boyfriend/girlfriend. It just happens. & you’re right on we haven’t seen each other in person yet, But that still doesn’t mean we’re still not a thing. & we both been cheated on in the past. So I can’t see any of us cheating on another since we know how it feels. & we hear from each other everyday. There are days we don’t hear from each other , nothing more than a day or 2 We’re both just busy with our daily life