Should I tell her how I feel?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl that I really like and could see myself potentially dating her. The thing is I don't know if she feels the same and I don't know if by me telling her how I feel will end up ruining our current relationship. I met her at work and once we started talking and low key flirting everyone thought we were secretly dating but we told everyone that it wasn't like that. We've only hung out once outside of work and that was at the mall nothing happened she just asked me if I wanted to come cause she had to bring her little sister and her little sisters friend to the mall so we were basically babysitting. One thing that always confuses me is when I first got her snapchat we would snapchat all the time, then suddenly she would stop responding to my random snapchats and would reply very rarely. Now I mentioned we worked together but we don't anymore cause she was seasonal so her last day was last week and we haven't seen each other since. So on her last day I snapchatted her saying we should hangout sometime and she snapchatted me back a selfie of her smiling and saying "okie". I'm at the point where I don't know what to do cause we don't talk that much and we never see each other anymore and I don't know what to do cause I don't want to loose a potential girlfriend but I don't want to ruin what we have or had, so can someone please tell me what I should do

[Lopezz1999]

You shouldn't tell a girl how you feel. Instead, you must make them feel like those feelings of yours are true. If there's one thing I've learned about the emotional minds of women, it's that most things they do/say/think is based off of how they feel. If you ever wonder how girls end up with bad boys or sympathize with depressing stories that men have told them, it's because those men have succeeded in making the girl feel, and that really grabs her attention. It definitely keeps her attention up high during sex, since women are also more likely to have sex once you've made them feel wanted. Put those feelings into action and make it clear that you like her without spewing your feelings. Unless this girl is attracted to other women, telling her about your feelings is only going to turn her off, even if she was initially attracted to you in the first place.

A personal experience similar to your situation would be one that happened today. I acknowledged the girl's presence, made her feel better about herself, made her feel like her company was appreciated, yet once I asked if she liked me, she said that she only liked me as a friend because during that moment when I asked, I stopped making her feel like her company was appreciated, she felt nothing, and so at best, she was merely turned off by what I had done there, despite still having major attraction for me.

I hope this was easy for you to understand, but it's very important to make a woman feel something if you want her to stick around.

[matheus_mb]

Yes, yes, you should. I know exactly how you feel. Twice in my life I wish I had said something, I wish I had done something and I didn't. I regretted deeply. I learned my lesson, since the last time years ago I always do something if I like someone or if I'm interested and so should you.

If you don't you'll wonder forever what would've happened if... and it may be too late. Do it, even if she rejects you it's way better than keep wondering what she would've done/said.

[Anonymous]

I say go for it. I admitted that I liked this guy the other day. Say your feelings. What's meant to be is meant to be.

[Truthatanycost]

Telling is lame. Show, don't tell.