Why did he hardly look at me on our date?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Only two Options:
-you are Sooo Hot that you are both blinding and intimidating
OR
-you’ve been smacked with the Ugly Stick so badly that it’s physically upsetting and scary to look at you..,

[Asker]

i dont think im ugly i get alotof guy attention when im outside

[Guy13]

🎉

Gotcha.

You can’t make a guy not be wimpy. How old are you two?

[Asker]

he's 28 and im 29

[Guy13]

That’s strange. Friends? Loner? I GOT IT. Does he live in the bottom of the split level at his Moms’⁉️

[Guy13]

Is he a bloody Mum boy?

[Asker]

no he doesn't live with his mum he lives in the uk and he's orginally from spain. i wouldn't say he is a loner he goes to sports clubs. not to sound nasty he isn't attractive but he is smart since he is doing a phd

[Guy13]

I see, Smart and ugly is better than Pretty and Dumb…I guess that makes sense, however, it sounds like a detached bloody hell to me.
You should be frightened that some guy, through a couple posts, peg this guy. Sometimes, these quiet loner types are the scary Narcissists.
—Inability to connect emotionally by chance?
What area of work is his PhD?

[Asker]

Yeah my bro says he's nice but tbh he only sees him at university so who knows what he's really like. Optics research

[Guy13]

Funny, quantum nano-optics and AI interests me but it’s above my pay grade. I get just enough to be Confused…
What’s his motivations for this area of Research? Where’s his heart…for good or bad.. what’s his Vision. Vision revolve around him or man or government. Controls etc… Plenty of area for personality exploration in this Arena.