All the guys I like already talk to other cooler girls. Where to find guys who don’t already have a girl best friend or a ton of girl friends?

Every guy I’ve liked recently have a ton of girl friends they talk to who are super pretty and it feels impossible to talk to them because they probably won’t see me a special, have a basis for how social/cool I should be, or already like her. I don’t wanna compete against another girl for a guys attention because I think that’s stupid but I refuse to go after a guy that feels so unattainable. Like for example I liked this guy and he was super friendly and I thought we really clicked then I realized he talked to everyone like that and is super close with this really pretty girl who’s just like the better version of me (looks like me but prettier, same hobbies but better, similar personalities but she’s more social.) so I just gave up. Why does every guy know so many pretty cool girls and does that mean their standards are really high? I know this sounds kinda bad but where can I find a guy who like is really shy or doesn’t socialize with girls (without being misogynistic or something)? I don’t wanna just be seen as another girl he talks to but as someone special. I’m not the most extroverted person so trying to stand out amongst a ton of more social girls would just be shooting myself in the foot and signing myself up to get hurt.
All the guys I like already talk to other cooler girls. Where to find guys who don’t already have a girl best friend or a ton of girl friends?
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