L and I are good friends, I have good conversations with him, and we make fun of each other, and I trust him. J recently added me, and I ask him a couple questions, you know, and I get a few words back, nothing major.
Their baseball team had a game and after it was done, they all started talking about who their dating and whatnot, so J texted me asking if we were talking yet, I said, "I don't know are we?" He said if you want, and I said "sure, if it makes you happy then sure" and I got inside sources from L who told me that J was very happy that we were dating now, I argued that talking is different than dating and L said not really, so there I was dating someone I hadn't met in person yet. I talked to J a little bit more after that, nothing major.
Few days pass, nothing much, J barely talks to me even though he said he liked me. I even told him something cool that happened to me and he left me on read. I then was talking to L, and he said I should probably be texting J more than I am texting him. I told him that I tried and he left me on read or on delivered for 5 hours at a time (not exaggerating) L said I should pester him, don't stop texting him for a few minutes, so I did, and J LEFT ME ON READ FOR ALL OF IT. I then said to J "Sorry, but why aren't you replying?" and "Am I that annoying?" and he left me on read AGAIN.
Does J really like me and am I being too much? I know I ask too many questions sometimes, but still... Thank you!!
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