What do you think of the situation? Any advice for me?

[pnwgirly]

My boyfriend (38M) and I (24F) started dating in January and made things official in May. Over the past couple of months, I’ve noticed he brings up kids quite a bit. I understand he probably wants to make sure we’re on the same page about the future, but it’s becoming a frequent topic. Almost every time we’re together, he’ll say things like “our kids would be adorable” or “you’d be such a good mom.” I’m not sure if he’s just speaking hypothetically or if he’s actually trying to hint that he wants to have kids with me.

[AvaRay]

It’s sweet that he sees a future with u , but consistency between words n timing matters..

If he’s bringing up kids often this early, it might not just be cute talk, it could be testing your mindset about long term commitment..

Well, at the same time, don’t ignore how u feel about it..

If it starts to feel like pressure rather than a genuine dream, that’s a sign to talk openly tho..

I can suggest u to say something like

> “I love that you see a future with me, but these talks about kids are coming a bit fast — I’d rather we focus on building us first.”



A mature relationship isn’t about rushing to the next chapter,
but about making sure you’re both ready to write it together. ✨

[Nikki1989]

Given the age difference and the stage of your relationship, his frequent references to “our kids” suggest a need for clarity and an acceleration of the relationship timeline due to his age.

[ohsheeT]

Well you need to make sure you understand 100 % the reason and truth.. because as I read your question
I felt as if he was doing or saying it and wanting then

Because it will tie you both together does he really want kids or is he afraid of loosing you

[RHK36]

Just ask him. If you can't communicate openly and honestly with your partner then you shouldn't be in a relationship with them or anyone really.

[Anonymous]

He’s trying to hint that he wants to have kids with you. He’s a lot older than you, so he’s thinking about stuff like that.