Why dont any men want to invite me to do activities so he can bond with me? All I get is invitations to do inappropriate stuff like nightclubs, strip?

[Anonymous]

Clubs, drinking, smoking. I dont even do any of that but guys will literally over and over try to covince me to go...(unless theyre just joking and im dense). But nothing like a date or something im so confused. I want to do something fun or eat at a daytime restaurant! Im so lonely and unloved!!!

[Nawlins34]

I don't know, but if you're attracting that kind of guy on a consistent basis, it's time to review what they see/hear from you.

You and your location are the only common denominators we can see in this post, if more exist, you should look to find out.

[20yearsolder]

Maybe that's what they consider a date, where are you meeting these guys? I'm looking to date, not just fuck. Don't message me unless you want to go have a meal and watch a movie.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe they think you’re that kinda girl

[Asker]

Haha i keep telling them im not.

[Asker]

Well not telling them directly but its pretty clear by how i say no every time.

[WhitneySnow]

Did you used to hook up or anything? Sometimes guys can get the wrong idea.

[Asker]

Nope! I dont have sex at all.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s really weird. I hope you find a guy who likes you for you and wants to take you out to dinner or the movies or something.

[Asker]

Thanks❤

[Anonymous]

They don’t need you for the non-sexual stuff.
We have buddies for that.