Would you think its weird and avoid me?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy who works at a coffee shop, we have been chatting for 3 weeks, and he is always smiling at me, coming up to say its good to see me, how am I, and being super friebnly. With all this eye contact i felt a spark. If i ask him to hang out, and he isn't into me and says no, do you think he will be weirded out and try to avoid me, making my usual coffee place awkard for the both of us?

[Anonymous]

Possibly I work as a waitress, I flirt with guys all the time it’s fun. I get hit on constantly. To be honest I’ve not met a customer who I would actually be with.

[Asker]

Thanks! Thats super helpful, do you think i shouod just wait for him to make a move if he is interested?

[wa1t1ngFuture]

Hmmm... he may have someone he loves and is just friendly or treats you as a friend..

[Asker]

Thanks! Thats super helpful, do you think i shouod just wait for him to make a move if he is interested?

[wa1t1ngFuture]

we live in the era of feminism (women and men are equal) ...

[Wise4myage]

No, not at all. And its nice to see women asking guys to hang out. :)

[Asker]

Thanks! I am super nervous because i dont actuslly know if he likes me or is being friendly lol

[Wise4myage]

I hear ya, but at least you will know right?

[Asker]

For sure!!! Thanjs for your help!

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome.

[Straight2thepoint]

Then don't ask him.


Don't shit where you eat.

[Asker]

Fair enough. But if everyone thought like that, we wouldn't have half the experiences we do, no?

[Straight2thepoint]

Then go for it champ. Since u obviously already made up ur mind.