I really want to a date a handsome firefighter. But I don't know where to get a date. I'm too shy to walk into the firehouse. So I decided to go on reddit fire department forums and try to look at profiles of firemen. Would it be creepy to just message a couple of them and ask for a date?
I work as a firefighter trust me where nothing special from the outside we look intimidating but in the firehouse were like a bunch of brothers cussing about are lifes and then we we get called to a incident we flip a switch and turn into superman lol when we’re not working that switch is off i worked at many stations we would be flattered but catch us washing a engine real quick or when we go to the store or dating profiles
Im smart enough to know its a workplace, not a bar scene. Im also very particular about the type of guy I am aiming for.
There not shy. So why not o just answered another question like this one
Still so persistent for a firefighter after asking your ex to hook you up with his people😢go ahead and say you don’t know what I’m talking about, you know you’re embarrassed that someone remembered and you know you’d be lying.
i don't care about this at all.
you didn't even bother answering my question.
You do care that’s why you’re back here.
i meant i don't care about what you just said.
Then why respond? Lol if you don’t care so much.
@ask105 she’s most definitely a woman who will screw you over! She asked to date her boyfriends friends. Horrible.
@opinionowner
You clearly have no job and have too much time on your hands, on here trying to stir up trouble
Read my questions carefully and you know will that he was just a player. He put in absolutely no effort into the relationship
LOL right, because calling someone out requires unemployment. You wish I were as lowly and desperate as you but I’m sorry, not sorry, I can’t relate.
@opinionowner
I can easily tell when someone has wayyyy too much time on their hands. You show all the signs of one. Go get a life and a job
Is that your mantra every day? Get a life and job? Lol stop projecting your shitty life upon me 😂😂 I don’t ask my exes to hook me up with their friends, already that makes me better than you lol
@opinionowner
You're the one on here without a life... and it shows... go get a job. I mean it. You sound like you have absolutely nothing going on in your life. Get a godam life
All that projecting girl stop! Lmao I’m sorry I cannot relate to your horrible jobless life😘 thank god!
Girl you’re just talking to talk lol because in what world does calling out you trying to hook up with your exes friends jobless behavior? Lol like huh? Why are you on this site giving and seeking advice if you’ve got zero time to spend on social media? Lol I meaaan! 😂💀
@opinionowner
If you're not here to answer the question, so what the fuck are you doing on here?
Doing whatever the FUCK I want, just like you lol desperate ho.
@opinionowner
you sound like an unemployed loser with no life and no friends. get a job before you accuse me of random things.
Whatever slut😘
@opinionowner
if that makes you feel better about being single, no job, no friends and no life.
Does anything make you feel better about fucking your ex and asking for his friends directly after? Lol like I said I can’t relate to you SINGLE shitty lifestyle, we KNOW what parts of your life are true because you’ve shared them. You are literally making up things about me lol.
@opinionowner
do you really have that much time on your hands?
you don't know anything about my life. you're just creating lies about me then spreading them BECAUSE YOU ARE BORED.
Sorry can’t relate to being single a desperate for firefighter c*ck😘 I have about just as much time as you have sitting here going back and forth lol where’s YOUR life at? You clearly have free time! You must be jobless😂
So weird to talk about being bored and having no life while you sit there doing the exact same thing as me lmao make it make sense!
@opinionowner
I don't go over the internet, making up lies, harassing other people instead of answering their questions, then spend hours arguing with them over it...
and you doing this is a clear sign that you have way too much time on your hands. Likely you're a huge loser in real life with no job
Lmao you are literally doing the same thing right now so I guess that makes you a loser too! A loser who’s single and desperate for firefighter c*ck, so desperate she’ll beg her ex for his friends :(
It’s not a lie lol you absolutely asked your ex to hook you up with his friends because “you have no other way of meeting a firefighter” lol your desperation knows no bounds!
@opinionowner
quit making up lies about me and then act like its the truth..
the reason why you're on here is because you're a bored bitch without a job, looking to stir up trouble.
you're not on here to answer any questions or offer any advice
you're just on here trying to stir up trouble because you're bored af.
single, lonely, no friends, no job, nothing going on in your life.
you'd be lucky if any man looks at you in real life, cuz i know you have none.
All that projecting, get a journal it’ll last you longer lol I’m sorry but that isn’t my life! It’s yours! I can’t relate to all that embarrassing, low quality shit you have going on but I guess pretending like someone else is going through it is much better than accepting your own pathetic life lol you weird, desperate slut. Get ready to go back and forth with yourself😘
@opinionowner
of course you're gonna say its not your life. A loser will never admit to being a loser.
But I know from my experience talking to and encountering people over the years, All the signs of a loser with too much time on their hands.
@opinionowner
you'd be lucky if any man looked your way, ugly bitch
you'd be lucky if any man looked your way, ugly bitch 🥺🥺
@opinionowner
yea.. because if you had a job and if you had a man, you wouldn't have nothing to do but harass other women on here. Clearly you got nothing going on in your life.
yea.. because if you had a job and if you had a man, you wouldn't have nothing to do but harass other women on here. Clearly you got nothing going on in your life. 🥺😢😢
@opinionowner
I have work tomorrow morning so I gotta head to bed early.
Unlike you, an unemployed miserable loser with no life.
I have work tomorrow morning so I gotta head to bed early.
Unlike you, an unemployed miserable loser with no life.🥺🥺😢
Bye homie hopper😘
@opinionowner
yea... I don't have the time to talk to you. I actually have a job.
Nighty
@opinionowner
yea... I don't have the time to talk to you. I actually have a job.
Nighty
Great, go put that FUNKY TWAT on ice for a night, bush puss. I don’t believe you have ANY job but I’ll never know! How can you prove it? You can’t lmao byyye SKUNK. Bye WHORE.
It’s creepy and desperate, but I guess people like this exist.
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The problem with Reddit is that they probably live too far away. You could try.
I live in NYC. these firemen work in my city
Oh nice. What is it about firemen that's attractive? Are they all in shape and look like male models or something?
they 6'5+, 250 lbs. I would move mountains to be with someone like that. Its a once in a lifetime opportunity to be with a guy like that.
so do you think it would be creepy to do what i said above?
Hopefully his fire hose is big too. Being 6'5, 250 pounds doesn't always mean they're built like a pornstar between the legs.
i don't need that big of a hose. I'm very visual as a person. I've tried having sex with people i wasn't attracted to and it just didn't work for me.
Oh okay. Well good luck.
Just remember that they're real people outside of their job. A lot of them probably have wives and kids etc. If you don't want to come across as creepy then try to make friends with them. See how it goes.
how ridiculous
Every profession has people with wives or kids... it doesn't mean I should never ever try to go find a mate in that profession.
but then again, im super shy so its hard to just walk into a firehouse and introduce myself
This isn't something I can really help you with. It likely isn't the same situation as if I went to to a woman's place of work and said, I have a fantasy about female volleyball players or something. I would probably get arrested, lol.
Who knows how the firefighters will react to you.
i kept asking you the same question over and over again
Would this be weird or stalkerish if i did what i mentioned in the question
I don't know, I'm not a firefighter. I feel like the smartest thing for you to do might be to go on a local dating app and ask in your tagline "Any Firefighters here?" That way you might meet single ones that are looking to date, rather than having any awkward moments by pursuing them on Reddit or at the fire station.
you can't ask a dating app this. you don't seem to understand how dating apps work
What are you taking about? People ask all kinds of stuff on Plenty of Fish like "Am I the One For You?" etc. I'm starting to think that you are kinda creepy for fantasizing and sexualizing a specific job. In reality, I doubt Firefighting is very sexy. It's a terrible job. They save people sometimes, but mostly they probably smell like smoke.
@clear_skies10
you're really no help.
i have been on dating apps for 10 YEARS, very rarely ever met a decent guy from those apps. Most people are on there because they can't get anyone from real life. Nobody knows dating apps better than me. And the only reason why I had been on there for so many years was because I was too shy to talk to guys in real life.
Dating apps are a cesspool. Trust this coming from spending almost a decade , on and off, those dumb apps.
Fair enough. I hope you find somebody. Maybe meet a nice guy and see if he will dress up as a firefightighter and roleplay with you.
you're really no help
All you want is to know if you're a creepy stalker.
would you rate my pics?
You look cute.
there is a singles event coming up with firemen and im shitting myself.
i have low self esteem and have no confidence to go
I don't know what to tell you. It's not like firefightighters are unusual people. They're blue collar guys who train for that job. They're just normal guys. You would probably meet somebody there. I hope your dreams come true. 🙂
@clear_skies10
rate my pics 1-10.
I don't know guys never approach me. i always get ignored.
I don't like rating people because who am I comparing them to, some 10 celebrity like Jessica Alba that nobody can date? You look like a cute woman. You have a lot going for you, you just gotta be confident.
you're not the first one who insisted on not rating. it only lowers my self esteem even further. I feel like people just aren't willing to tell me the harsh truth
You can't boost someones confidence if you wanf to hide what you truly think about how they look
I don't think the 1-10 rating scale does you justice. I think you look adorable. I would totally date you, but I'm not a firefightighter.
*Firefighter. My autocorrect has it saved and spelled wrong, lol.
I really dont understand how a 1 to 10 scale won't do me justice.
Its a universal rating metric.
Some people have a unique look. Nothing compares to you, it's a good thing. When I saw your picture it immediately made me happy. You have a loveable face. Any guy would be lucky to be with you. You should be confident.
@clear_skies10
i get no attention from guys in real life. its been a long time since i got any attention from guys.
Some people call me beautiful but guys never hit on me. I feel invisible.
That's too bad, you really are cute. If I lived there I would give you attention if that means anything. I wish you were here right now. Unfortunately you live in NYC and you have a firefighter preference. I live in Alberta.
thats what guys always say online but never in real life.
you have no idea how lucky you are to live in alberta. I've in nyc, the total opposite of alberta. Its disgusting, disturbing and noisy, expensive and uncomfortable here.
I imagine that New York is a pretty extreme place to live. I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable there. I do like Alberta, but our winters are very cold, and it's definitely boring here compared to NYC.
@clear_skies10
people aren't nice here. there is a very high standard for beauty too. Too much competition when it comes to mates.
I hear you. There's like over 8 million people there or something, lol. You have all the competition in the world. Do you think you'll ever move someplace else?
yes, I'm going to leave in 1-2 years, after I finish my degree. I sense you are really nice firendly person. Its very uncommon to find people like that over here. People will only hangout with you and stay as your friend, only if you still are funny, charismatic and in a good mood. Once your lose your charisma, all your friends will be gone. Competition for friends is enormous too. There are just way too many people here
Yeah it's completely different from my life. I live out on a farm where I rarely see anyone. It's beautiful here, but very quiet. I have a son who's 18 but he moved away
I still see him occasionally. What is your degree for?
@clear_skies10
wow 18 yr olds can't even more out here in NYC. Its way too expensive. Just feels like no matter how many additional college degrees you get, it just never feels like enough money. Inflation is insane. Prices just go up every few years.
I'm already a nurse, currently looking to further my degree. Nursing is hard. The sacrifice I've made to become financially stable is enormous. This isn't my first career either.
Wow, you've been very busy. I'm interested in your New York lifestyle. Right now it's pretty late here and I struggling to stay awake. It was nice to meet you. Maybe we could talk more another time.
No. Just be sweet and nice and you’ll find at least one firefighter willing to date you.
Yes, creepy
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