Have a date canceled on you before?

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lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

The guy I was seeing played me...
He was invested and as excited as I was about meeting up and going out.
That was up until the first time we decided to have sex.
We had such lovely dates to begin with.
We went to a lovely Turkish restaurant and decided to spend the night together in a hotel all was going well until his penis went flaccid.
I didn't get upset or make a fuss.
I actually tried to make him feel good by kissing him and telling him how attractive he was.
That was the beginning of the end. I think He was embarrassed and didn't know how to come back from that. Although he did contact me daily the conversations got less and less.
The second time was only because I made a fuss about him not bothering to let me know in good time. He was happy to see me, all was going well until suddenly he seemed to get another bout of anxiety. This time he said he felt sick like the food was off. That night he couldn't perform for a second time.
He continued to contact me to make plans but then needed to cancel the next day.
Or he'd make plans then go quiet the whole day.
Only for me to text and then he'd say he was busy with work or too tired.
I gave him three chances because one week he looked and said he was ill.

When I ended things the following day he sent me a picture of himself freshly trimmed up after visiting the barbers.
Ugh!
Dunno his issue but it got old fast.

annabananna · Accepted Answer

Yea, he said he cut his finger lol

Account · Answer

Not that I can recall. Friends have though.

northerngal · Answer

Oh yes many times. I have no problem with a man being open and honest and cancelling a date in a timely way. He will usually get a rain check from me for being so considerate. If he wants lol But be a jerk and stand me up or come up with some lame excuse ot ghost me and there will be no 2nd chance.

Hitman2847 · Answer

Yeah, but fortunately it was rather postponed for a couple of times and happened eventually,

Though Igot stood by a friend that I was interested in, about an hour late for a breakfast date at 8 am, and she gets word to me by sms at 9am that she just can't come 😳

exitseven · Answer

Yes, she told me a cash register fell off a table and she had to stay late and clean up the mess. What she didn't know was that I had already stopped by where she worked because I was going to give her a ride home and she was not there. I knew she was lying to me. I never called her again.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. Once, I asked a woman out. She said yes, we made plans and a week later she decided she didn't want to go out with me anymore. Like not on that date, but ever.
She was a bit of a flake, because she wouldn't leave me alone afterwards. It's like she just wanted attention.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, but I haven't been on that many dates either.  My best friend has been ghosted and canceled by several dudes. Even though they initiated going on the dates and seemed interested

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, many times... had many plans with my girlfriends to just not happen because well, that's life there's a lot of other things happening as well, not a big deal really... you just reschedule

subrugbylad · Answer

Yes, had a few that just didn't turn up too. Always have to be aware that may happen so always make sure we meeting in a place I'm happy to go to on my own too.  Don't understand why people do it.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Been stood up and cancelled on last second. Shit happens. Just don't waste your time on them.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Yes because she got stuck with milking the cows that night. She was nice enough to get me a replacement. Strange what happened four years latter and not with cowgirl or replacement.

Pyrofox · Answer

I've done it to my current girlfriend cause she was too mentally not there. Straight up told her to get her shit together if she wants a date. I'm dating her for her and not the weird shaddy introverted fake her.

Jabberjaw · Answer

Happens to the best of us. Not for a few years but has happened

TheLoneTerran · Answer

Yeah. Couple times. People get sick. And love an offer of being brought some soup or food.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

No never it's rude not saying there's some I wish I did cancel though

sheikalana · Answer

I think someone did in the past for unforeseen reasons but immediately re-scheduled the date for another time.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Yes but only after I waited for 20 min in the cold 🙃

AustinTXGuy · Answer

Once, and pretended to be coming but running late to seemingly strong me along even more.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Oh sure, lots of dates chicken out. I always have something fun planned as back up so it won't bum me out.

poneglyphs · Answer

Yes or play dumb with me. I have been ghosted or stood up too 🥺

AdithyaR · Answer

Never gotten a yes for date, never mind getting stood up.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

I do this whenever I'm a little fucked up lol I'm a bit self conscious

msc545 · Answer

More than once. If it was a first date which it was several times, I never saw her or spoke to her again no matter the stated reason.

TexasRed95 · Answer

Nope I am awkward and never make it to the first date.

Gji7rcvh · Answer

No. Mendont even ask women on dates anymorem they just want to "hang out". Pussues.

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah but she made it up to me and we ended up hanging out the next day instead of the one planned

Espresso-Grande · Answer

No, but i've been stood up before

dustybiker · Answer

No. Friends and family but never a date.

zagor · Answer

I don't even remember.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Not yet, no.

Blackcupcake · Answer

nope

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

I never did

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