Have you ever cancelled a date on the last minute or stood someone up? What was your excuse?

[Selina_Kyle_]

Did you feel guilty if you cancelled?

I wasn't gonna share a second photo, but he's so hawt

[ak667]

Not very last minute but I have before, yet it wasn't as though I simply didn't show up. I asked her permission and forgiveness in advance, and she knew it was a possibility, but she had already prepared. And it was already long past first date; I made sure my schedule was free for those (only had first dates on weekends).

In my case, ever since I started working remotely, that came with the advantage that my hours were largely flexible. I could work whenever I wanted and take time off whenever I wanted with some exceptions. The downside is that occasionally things would get very hectic when I'd least expect it, and we might have an emergency meeting and some last-minute crunch work to do when least expected.

But the few times I did this, it was already at a point in the relationship where the girl understood this was a distinct possibility if we were to meet on weekdays, and I let her know as soon as I could that I couldn't make it, and would try to make up for it the next day. Yet there were a few times I had to cancel somewhat last-minute due to unanticipated emergencies at work.

[Selina_Kyle_]

I can't describe how much beautifully u explain other than thinking of it deserves MHO.
thank u so much, Tom 😂 <3

[Selina_Kyle_]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSgs63ZE0HU

[ak667]

https://youtu.be/FF_vliKV2Lw

[Selina_Kyle_]

hahaha

[xTom98]

If I agree to a date I always keep my word, so I didn't do it yet. If I did it, Id feel bad... they planned the day and once you cancel they have nothing to do. So Id feel bad for wasting their time

[Selina_Kyle_]

u r a very great gentleman :-)

[xTom98]

Thank you 😊

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Long ago, my boyfriend & I were thousands of miles apart. We scheduled a video call on Skype but I failed to log in at all that promised night. He was worried and he had good reason to be. I was stabbed twice in an apparent rape attempt that night. My mom called him for me. He immediately got on a flight to be by my side.

[Jupiter1]

Damn! Sorry to hear about that!

[Selina_Kyle_]

oh that's really so sad,
I am so glad they couldn't do more than just attempt and him being a good boyfriend to fly to ur side.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Thank you @Jupiter1 & @Selina_Kyle_! Don't worry. Thanks to my man, he taught me self-defense lessons that prove very effective. I fought a good fight against 2 bozos and it doesn't bother me anymore now.

[Selina_Kyle_]

oh really? u r like a heroine hehe <3 I am so happy to hear

[Jupiter1]

@DeeDeeDeVour: That's awesome! What kind of lessons did your boyfriend teach you?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@Jupiter1: He's an MMA instructor. He taught me Taekwondo & Aikido.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@Selina_Kyle_: :) Thank you for the other MHG my co-fan of handsome Henry Cavill. <3

[Selina_Kyle_]

😍😍😍 I could had given u another MHO even now I just remembered u loved him too!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

:D Yeah! :D

[Kenni]

No. Even tho i was disappointed the second I saw him, i still met him, and we talked. Or more like I talked. Which is why we the date didn't last long. I was practically making all the efforts and talking to myself.

[Selina_Kyle_]

that is so nice of u, I would have done the same

[Kenni]

We're not assholes 😉

[Selina_Kyle_]

but we can be bitchy sometimes when it is needed 😂

[Kenni]

Well we are sexy when we're bitches 😏

[Selina_Kyle_]

rawr

[Kenni]

Thank you for MHO babygirl 😉

[Selina_Kyle_]

my pleasure frenchbae <3

[ChrisTruthseeker]

When I was a teenager.
I was supposed to meet a girl at a party.
I had a bad pimple on my face and I didn't want her to see it and I didn't want to tell her about it either.
She kept calling me from the party and I just said that I was watching movies and didn't feel like going.
She probably never forgave me. LoL!
DAMN TEENAGE PIMPLES!!!

[Selina_Kyle_]

hahaha that's so understandable and I fucking hate them.
I had some too like 3-4 years ago and it was really a confidence killer.
where r u from btw?

[ChrisTruthseeker]

Yeah, pimples are not my favorite memory. : /
Oh, I live in western Canada, how about you?

[Selina_Kyle_]

oh I love Canada so much.
I am from Turkey

[ChrisTruthseeker]

Cool.
Great question by the way. : )

[Selina_Kyle_]

thanks

[SngBirdy]

Yeah, i did. But never because i chickened out. But because i had good reasons.
If i chicken out on a date or meetup, i know that beforehand. And i'll cancel the date soon enough, not on the same day.
And yes i felt bad the few times it happened. I even called one girl one time and apologized

[Selina_Kyle_]

u still had ur good reasons as u said and u did call her, probably told why aswell.
it is not cool at all, but sometimes it can happen I guess

[CurlyHairGuy]

I stood up a married woman because back then I felt guilty that she was married which now I would feel absolutely no guilt it's funny how time makes you colder lol. But this particular girl I stopped talking to her before this and also stood her up one night before this too. If I had to the chance to go back I would have just not let her marriage bother me.

[Selina_Kyle_]

did u do it when u just learned about it, or u knew it before?

[CurlyHairGuy]

Well I knew her before she was married and we met right before she got into a relationship with this big tall guy and he was like 7 feet tall she ended up with him then got married and was unhappy so we talked a while and she wanted to hook up and she also was crazy went to my work to see me and he found out and threatened me but I wasn't scared I told her let him try something my co workers all love me they will beat him down lol. But it was just I was very religious and felt by messing around with a married woman I would be doing the wrong thing which now of course religion means nothing to me I was an idiot lol.

[Troollio]

I did, once, I realized I did not like her but she liked me so I instead of misleading her into believing I like her back and that she would just be hurt I turned it into a group activity instead of a 1-on-1 date

[Selina_Kyle_]

not cool for her, but understandable

[Troollio]

I guess I just didn’t want her to face rejection since I know how much it hurts

[Selina_Kyle_]

what's done is done, don't overthink over it

[Troollio]

Yeah...

[Eryxx]

Never been on a date but I do cancel my plans with my friends. The most common reasons are that I wanna stay at home and play video games, study or workout. Sometimes, I cancel the plans because I just don't feel like going anywhere.

[Selina_Kyle_]

were they hurted? sometimes since it is just about hanging out, it shouldn't be big deal at all if u didn't feel so

[Eryxx]

Nah, I don't care if they get hurt or not. We can always hang out later.

[Selina_Kyle_]

exactly

[AbdKilani]

that guy looks like me lol
Well,. I never been on a date, I only got one chance and the girl just freaked out and cancelled.
But I would never do that , no matter what , it is respect and I would go through hell to keep my word.

[Selina_Kyle_]

why did she cancelled lol?
u sent her a d*ck photo before she comes, didn't u?

[AbdKilani]

If I did she would cancel , and come to my apartment straight lol
Kidding
I would never do that
And TBH, she offered me , maybe out of pity or something l after we agreed to the date she canceled in two hours lol

[Selina_Kyle_]

lol haha I was surely joking but I heard some guys really do that I was referring to it.
I know u r not that kind of person

[AbdKilani]

lol thanks
I just don't know what happened , like she offered and agreed on a date and time
Two hours after she said no :(
My only chance of a date...

[AbdKilani]

[Selina_Kyle_]

stop using those giffs u r making me feel bad 😂

[AbdKilani]

Soweyy :(

[Anonymous]

I'll never understand why people stand people up. it's one thing to cancel last minute, but, I just wasted gas, and probably new clothes etc.. to get to the place I was going, for you to just not send me something like "I can't make it". If you're going to not show, just do that. DONT STAND PEOPLE UP! ITS NOT COOL, AND YOU NEED HELP

[Selina_Kyle_]

all u said is nice, but why being sad for saying something sensible?

[Selina_Kyle_]

why being anon*

[Opinion Owner]

you allowed it?

[Selina_Kyle_]

I just wonder there is nothing to be anon about that

[Opinion Owner]

i know, but you still allowed them

[Selina_Kyle_]

okay lol

[Gedaria]

Yes it was a blind date, got the diner and sea her. Sadly everything I don't like she was but I thought got this was to going to say hello , she lit up a fag , that was a game changer so I walked out !!!

[Selina_Kyle_]

that was the most realistic blind date I have ever heard 😂

[Gedaria]

It's not like me to do a thing like just walk away but I'm an ex smoker and the thought of kissing her was too much. The girl herself she was pretty just what I like. I often kick myself but there is a line smoking is one !!!

[Selina_Kyle_]

hahaha

[Gedaria]

What's funny you must have a line. It's no good,. you just go with anyone you can be upset being with someone that irritates you

[Clo917]

I’ve never been on a date before, but I wouldn’t stand someone up. That’s not cool.

[Selina_Kyle_]

exactly, also u r so lovely to do that to anyone 🤗

[WhitePanther88]

Yeah. Usually something serious like one time a car crash, another time I had to rush a neighbour's daughter to hospital.

[Selina_Kyle_]

these are understandable

[QueenofCups]

It's happened, but only when I really couldn't make it. Yes, I felt guilty.

[Selina_Kyle_]

if u were going to feel u will be forced, there is no meaning trying even

[QueenofCups]

I agree.

[Selina_Kyle_]

:-) :-)

[QueenofCups]

I have never felt forced to go on a date. If you wanna talk, I'll be around later.

[Rangers]

No, but I got stood up yesterday. Her excuse was that she had to get vitamins for her dog and I was like 😂

[Selina_Kyle_]

what kind of lame excuse that lol.. sorry to hear

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

Yeah. And no, I didn't feel guilty.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[Selina_Kyle_]

u'll burn in hell for that

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

lmao XD
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[Selina_Kyle_]

u can still go to church and cleanse ur sins

[Nik1hil]

Don't ask her to go to church!..
Reputed devil's!. Like me, Crawl to get to her feet to cleanse the virtues that happen from us by Mistake!.. 🤣😂🤣

If she got cleansed!.
Where will I get me virtues removed!..

[hellacray]

I've been late because of traffic, but I never cancel last minute.

[Selina_Kyle_]

that's very understandable

[Bruce_VVayne_]

No, I would still attend to the date no matter what.

[Selina_Kyle_]

I know u r Bruce Wayne

[Aarav619]

I had a date but her parents gave her somework and she told me when I was just about to leave my house, so I felt dissappointed

[Selina_Kyle_]

ah that's bit sad, but u guys couldn't find another time?

[Aarav619]

We did but it wasn't actually a date it was hangout with friends

[Taylor_C]

I have. No excuses, just being lazy and didn´t seem all that important. I´m a horrible person, I know.

[chnapo]

I actually never experienced a date, eventhough I had 3 years long relationship...

[Selina_Kyle_]

oh that's long, I am assuming it was distance/online?

[chnapo]

Nope :D we just didn't date... She seduced me (I was virgin) for sex (it took her many months to seduce me) and then we started a relationship, we somehow skipped the dating part.

[zagor]

I forgot I had made a date once, and got an angry message saying well have a nice life. Oops.

[Selina_Kyle_]

lol hahaha

[avalonbob]

No, I was always so grateful when some girl would actually go out with me.

[Anonymous]

Naaah
I cancelled last minute cause I found out by my sibling he liked to date girls waaay younger than what was normal so I decided not to go on a movie date. I said I wasn’t ready to date

[Johnnie1000]

Never stood someone up but have called and canceled for a guy thing.

[realperson02]

Not happened till date and hope it doesn't happen in the future

[suleuman]

Not dated yet anyone. Yes cancelled a lot of parties of friends and then felt worse about the dicision.

[whatif007]

I cancelled last minute gave her an excuse (lied). went to this bar with some friends and guess who was there... OMG

[jacjoanne]

Yes. I said I slept in

[Selina_Kyle_]

it is not cool, but if u had ur reasons surely understandable

[Jupiter1]

I have never stood up anyone or have been stood up by someone. I did cancel on a few dates because of work and family emergencies but I called way ahead of time and I made up for them later on.

[Nik1hil]

Hahaha I have never been on a date

[Selina_Kyle_]

that's okay

[Nik1hil]

I don't feel ready for it!.
So not a problem!..
I don't think I can handle a relationship!..
So it's okay for me..

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

No if the girl is as pretty as she seems.

[Selina_Kyle_]

what about her character?

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

Yeah if her character is good.

[LiLOwL]

Sadly I have never been on a date.

[computergeek357]

only once. I chickened out

[computergeek357]

not that it helped me out any by then

[TallAnon]

I would never do that, seems cruel

[RIVERTAY888]

l would never do that its not nice

[rickytim]

No never done that

[Selina_Kyle_]

nice

[rickytim]

Yeah I don't want to do that to a lady

[daif777]

i dont want a company

[ibodi]

ya...

[Kashanadil]

No never

[TheRealQuestion]

Never have.