If a girl hits you, can you hit her back as a man?

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https://youtu.be/G5wIj7LbslY

If a girl hits you, can you hit her back as a man?

Yeah bro she asked for it.

Nah bro never lay your hands on another woman regardless.

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Answer 1

Anonymous

If you come at someone in violence; it is reasonable to assume that they will return your violence with violence. It may or may not be proportional. So it is best to never start anything; even if you are confident in your abilities in a fight. You never know if the other person is ready to go nuclear on you.

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AssholeNumberOne | 58 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Equal rights equal fights, bro. I'd never judge a dude for hitting a girl back.

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insteadfew

2 mo
But he should not be really forcefully brutal anyway

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CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS

2 mo
I could never hit a woman like that

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AssholeNumberOne

2 mo
@insteadfew Course. Unless he's fighting for his life or some shit

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insteadfew

But he should not be really forcefully brutal anyway

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CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS

I could never hit a woman like that

Answer 5

AssholeNumberOne

@insteadfew Course. Unless he's fighting for his life or some shit

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APrettyLittleLady87

Xper 3

Did you notice that loser ran away as fast as he could, afraid a real man would beat the shit out of him? That woman slapped him. Not hard.

He's trash for punching her as he did and that's why he ran away like a kicked mongrel dog before he got his ass kicked. Too bad. If he'd gotten into a fight with a man he'd have wailed like a bitch & shit himself.

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Vivaldi

2 mo
Men are the angels to protect women, huh?

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Vivaldi

2 mo
Fuck your double standard.

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APrettyLittleLady87

2 mo
@Vivaldi It's not double standard. Let's say a guy lightly smacks another guy. If the guy smacked punches real hard in response... he'd have the shit beat out of him for being trash. Happens with men who don't respond properly... they get pounded into the concrete.

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APrettyLittleLady87

2 mo
@Vivaldi - as exactly what would've happened here and why the loser ran away as fast as he could before a real man could've smashed his jaw in

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Djaay

2 mo
I would have slapped him for not slapping her back. Your right about the right response which includes women also.

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APrettyLittleLady87

2 mo
@Djaay Exactly. Inferior individuals - aka trash - respond improperly to a situation. That is why 9 out of 10 times they never achieve anything in life. With the guy in the video - a criminal record is more than likely his highest achievement.

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Vivaldi

Men are the angels to protect women, huh?

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Vivaldi

Fuck your double standard.

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APrettyLittleLady87

@Vivaldi It's not double standard. Let's say a guy lightly smacks another guy. If the guy smacked punches real hard in response... he'd have the shit beat out of him for being trash. Happens with men who don't respond properly... they get pounded into the concrete.

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APrettyLittleLady87

@Vivaldi - as exactly what would've happened here and why the loser ran away as fast as he could before a real man could've smashed his jaw in

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Djaay

I would have slapped him for not slapping her back. Your right about the right response which includes women also.

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APrettyLittleLady87

@Djaay Exactly. Inferior individuals - aka trash - respond improperly to a situation. That is why 9 out of 10 times they never achieve anything in life. With the guy in the video - a criminal record is more than likely his highest achievement.

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Sour-rose | 188 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

But honestly, yes? But hope they don't find you if she doesn't get back up... or is breathin'. But hey, if you put your hands on me that way, I'd probably react the same.

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lightbulb27 | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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That looked over the top, but first glance. don't know what was going on.
dont' think need to deck her, he's bigger than her. Id say same if was male/male. try to rachet it down.

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AviatorTom | 885 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

You can always defend yourself, but that doesn't mean you can just hit her back. Maybe you can just restrain her or just walk away... no, that's not unmanly.

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Screamsgutter

2 mo
Clearly you've never tried to do either, otherwise you'd know angry women, especially ones you don't know, hate being restrained and will do anything to draw attention to her being the restrained 'victim', usually by yelling as loud as they can for someone's attention. And do you think angry women, especially those who actually start altercations, aren't gonna follow you when you walk away from them. Good luck.

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AviatorTom

2 mo
@Screamsgutter I'm not sure why you think I've done neither, because I've done both... successfully. It's important to deescalate the confrontation.

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Screamsgutter

2 mo
Well, that hasn't been my experience after seventeen years as a bouncer at all kinds of bars.

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Answer 16

Screamsgutter

Clearly you've never tried to do either, otherwise you'd know angry women, especially ones you don't know, hate being restrained and will do anything to draw attention to her being the restrained 'victim', usually by yelling as loud as they can for someone's attention. And do you think angry women, especially those who actually start altercations, aren't gonna follow you when you walk away from them. Good luck.

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AviatorTom

@Screamsgutter I'm not sure why you think I've done neither, because I've done both... successfully. It's important to deescalate the confrontation.

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Screamsgutter

Well, that hasn't been my experience after seventeen years as a bouncer at all kinds of bars.

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ArtemisSilver | 248 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Yes but only if there's really no other option and only until she stops attacking you or the person you're protecting.

I've been a bouncer and I hated it when chicks got crazy because I'd have to wrestle em down and zip tie them and always file a police report with whiteness statements validating my actions. Pain in my ass.

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Screamsgutter

2 mo
Former bouncer here as well. Would rather break up altercations between men any day over women. Never witnessed more blatant lies than when women do stupid shit, then wanna make believe it either never happened, offer a completely alternate story that only exists in their heads, insist it isn't their fault or shift the blame to others outright, despite the fact that four witnesses are telling the same story that's completely different from hers and video footage from either witnesses' cellphones or surveillance cameras, which just about all clubs/bars have to some extent.

I've been an advocate for more bars (well, larger ones anyway, or popular clubs) to employ female bouncers just for those occasions. Seen a few, but not many.

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ArtemisSilver

2 mo
Yes for shows we did actually get some female security staff in for just this reason.

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Screamsgutter

Former bouncer here as well. Would rather break up altercations between men any day over women. Never witnessed more blatant lies than when women do stupid shit, then wanna make believe it either never happened, offer a completely alternate story that only exists in their heads, insist it isn't their fault or shift the blame to others outright, despite the fact that four witnesses are telling the same story that's completely different from hers and video footage from either witnesses' cellphones or surveillance cameras, which just about all clubs/bars have to some extent.

I've been an advocate for more bars (well, larger ones anyway, or popular clubs) to employ female bouncers just for those occasions. Seen a few, but not many.

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ArtemisSilver

Yes for shows we did actually get some female security staff in for just this reason.

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HighValue | 871 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes. It is okay to hit her back as hard as you can. It doesn't matter if she is 120 pounds and I am 260, if she hits me then it is fine to hit her back full force.

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slatyb | 8.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Only if you are in danger of injury from further assault. Even then you are obligated to use the minimum force necessary.

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dustybiker | 898 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Not if you have any self respect. It’s your own head you sleep with at night. Same as her if she started it.

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qwert1234 | 530 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I would advise just walk away. Don't stick up on crazies.
Then again, if you are backed up, or is in any sort of danger, feel free to act out of self defense.
Emphasis on self-defense.

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FunkyMonkee | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I don't see why she gets a free pass. What if she hits you in the head with a baseball bat? Are you supposed to just stand there and take it and wait for her to hit you again?

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Cherry234 | 451 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

If she's attacking you then you can hit her back out of self defense. I mean if she's beating the crap out of you. However, if she slaps you then don't knock her out.

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snackthatsmilesback | 169 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Obviously. The question is do you want to? Personally I don't wanna get in fights anymore—don't want the medical or legal risks—regardless of their gender.

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SamIam96 | 52 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

NO. WTF. Unless she's a trained fighter, be a man. Control your impulses.

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TommyMountainFigure | 962 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I would NEVER hit a woman. Besides, there are lots of ways to restrain her without hitting anyway.

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Rockstarrrrr | 132 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

No it's disgusting i I would never do that.. The closest I got was a crazy girl and I just restrained her until she realized she was acting stupid and stopped it...

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Counterclocking

Xper 4

Yes, women don’t have extra rights. Self defense against a woman is a legal as it is against a man.

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Mynameisbobby | 79 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I think you should in self defense yes! So if she attacks you first same if it were a guy. But the response should be appropriate.

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KrakenAttackin | 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

In 2022 a woman who strikes a man SHOULD expect to be hit back, BUT we know the Simp Nation will always come down on her side (incl police and courts).

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Aiko_E_Lara | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

We should. Even Steven and self defense. I would love to be this guy

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Pc50ksC2Qc4

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sirderpsalot123 | 215 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Yes but don't use excessive force. All you have to do is barely put your hands on her and she'll stop. Women aren't stupid, they don't want to fight a man, they will stop the second they know that you aren't just going to stand there and take it.

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