How to manifest male attention, a boyfriend, and self love?

[Anonymous]

Is anyone here into like the law of attraction and manifestation? I’ve gotten like money and clothes but never relationship stuff yk (maybe it’s because I don’t have enough faith) but it just hasn’t come true for me yet. Whenever I try to manifest a crush or a relationship the guy I’m trying for will suddenly lose interest or like I’m im generally manifesting a relationship if just won’t show up yk. Any tips?

[ohshee]

You're trying to manifest the wrong thing with humans we have this thing called the energy is all your energy that you're putting into the things that you want and that you are getting that is your energy when it comes to being a couple with somebody you both have to understand energy now you should know that energy is one of the most beautiful feelings you ever going to feel in your life and when two people connect and they have that energy together it is Unstoppable it is so beautiful it actually can take your breath away but that has to happen on its own you can't say let's do this together let's do that together and try this because now it's a form of manipulating yourselves into doing something it has to be natural when is natural that is the most beautiful part when you both can become it at the same time and if you understand that can you allow yourselves both to become one he will feel the most beautiful feeling in this world as one not being manipulated not being tricked but I think that you know that feeling I'm talking about and I think you know the energy that I'm talking about

[Asker]

Hmm I’m not quite sure I completely agree with the fact it has to just be because I do think you have to align yourself with what your looking for or else you’ll end up attracting low vibrational people because your not at your best but I think I get what your saying overall. Thank you!!

[ohshee]

Wow yes that was good I do understand what you are saying and that is very interesting I want to know more of what you think if that's ok

[jshm2]

That's not how love and belief work, kiddo.

Money can buy a prostitute, but not love.

Maybe you have a shit personality, or just bad vibes. But until you are lovable to someone, it doesn't matter what money or style you have.

Work on improving yourself and your social skills, the rest will come after.

[Asker]

Look up Law of Attraction, Law of Assumption, and Neville Goddard because thats literally exactly how it works. I’ve manifested so much abundance and highly specific things into my life in a matter of hours, days. It’s just aligning your frequencies with what your looking for and deserve.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Go to the mirror, look at yourself and repeat,

“I am the sexiest female in the world,
I’ll get any man I want,
I am beautiful,
I am feminine,
I am the best!”
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I’m joking 🤭 While you can say those things to yourself, the best way to attract any men to you is “Be happy with yourself”, you can’t imagine how men love women who are happy with themselves and in tune with their inner world.

[Asker]

It’s funny because the first thing you said usually really works for me, saying out loud positive affirmations. Thank you so much for your response!!

[jennifer_bloom]

Every decent person I know that got somebody says they found them when they weren’t looking for them.

[Asker]

Not sure how to though. Everywhere I go my first thought is “what if I meet a cute guy…” then I plan out some whole story in my head over nothing🥲

[slatyb]

You can't "manifest" anything. You have to act. What are you doing to meet potential partners?

Self love? Get counseling if you can.

[Asker]

Interesting I can’t manifest anything when I’ve done it before I a matter of hours, days with very specific things and received unexpected money. I’m focusing on myself to find a partner because that how you align your laser with what your looking for. If you don’t believe or whatever that fine but don’t expect me to give a shit about your answer…

[slatyb]

"I’m focusing on myself to find a partner" Finding a partner requires that you meet people somewhere. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to meet a future partner.

[Asker]

I still go outside and stuff but unless I personally become what the type of partner I want would be attracted to im not going to find what I’m looking for. If you just go looking for anyone you are attracting broken people who will only give you the bare minimum. What’s meant for you will find you as long as you align yourself with what your looking for.

[slatyb]

What are your short-term and long-term goals? What do you believe the partners you want are looking for?

[SlothySlob]

My gut feeling is that you've been with mostly sugar daddies and/or give off the "high maintenance" vibe that the general schmuck can't maintain.

[Asker]

I’m just truene 18 it would be really weird if I was dating old men while I was in high school… don’t know what’s high maintenance about the Law of Attarction but there aren’t a lot of high vibrational people on this site anyway…

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't believe in manifestation or faith. I think they are both silly concepts.

[In_Trance]

be yourself and the right male will pay attention

[Jltakk]

Simply ask?

[Asker]

Simply asking doesn’t guarantee I’ll find someone who will actually treat me kindly and value me for what I know I’m worth. Manifestation aligns you exactly with what you what and need in your life. Just asking guys out randomly usually won’t get your people who really fit what your looking for…