How to let go of someone you love?

[Anonymous]

[Takaharu]

Been through it. Its hard. Take me about 2 years to move on. I guess by making yourself busy. At that time, I started joined community activities, spending free time with friends and families and certainly not stalking that person.

If they caused you more heartbreak than comfort, please try to hold yourself together and stand on your ground. Do not engage with them.

[Sam_25]

Find new one to love.

[Asker]

I can’t use someone to let go.

[Sam_25]

You're such a wonderful person...
Make yourself busy in other things.

[TenkRealist]

Just... let go

[Asker]

It’s just hard..

[TenkRealist]

Well yeah. But that's all you can do. There's no way around it.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't

[Asker]

Why?

[jahaims]

Why would I let go of someone I love?

[Asker]

What if that’s the only option left?

[jahaims]

It's not though

[Asker]

Me and my boyfriend are fighting for over 6 months things get ok for 1-2 week and then back to fight. Now he don’t care if I leave and sometimes asks me to leave. But I don’t want to.

[jahaims]

If someone lost their love for me then I would lose my love for them. So I can't relate or understand how it is hard to let someone go in that circumstance. Before you get into a relationship you should know each other's morals, values and goals. If all of those line up and the relationship is still having fights that is just due to immaturity and/or poor communication.