I met this man in Malaysia, a country where I struggle greatly because of rampant racism. He is an Arab and a foreigner like myself in the country. I immediately liked him when we first met, and I know he feels the same way. We continued dating until we got in relationship.
Every time we make love on bed, it was so passionate towards one other. Each time I slept on his chest and smelled his scent, I felt calm and happy that even people can feel my happy aura. When we shate stories and laugh together, I was the happiest woman on earth. I felt so safe and protected while we hold hands together and walking around
However, fate will have to separate us because he has to go back to his country soon to look for work. And any time left, makes me mourn and cry at night because I am afraid of how broken I will be and got scared if I can make it. I want to follow him, but he said that Iraq is an extremely dangerous place for me. When he leaves, I am thinking to leave Malaysia too because of how toxic the country's racism is that has already my mental health. I plan to move to Canada but I love him, and I want to be with him.
Please advise What should I do
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Does HE care enough to leave Iraq and live with you in another country?
Well, he knows his country well so you should trust him when he says it is dangerous for you to go there. Since you said you want to move to Canada so unless he can find a way to move to Canada it is very tough for you to be with him.
I do understand and I can see you really love him a lot.
Be strong and maybe go back to Canada where you are needed and wanted