(19F) Why do people keep asking me if I'm "seeing any boys?"?

[okayk]

I've never been in a relationship, most of the guys that like me pretty much all have bad intentions which is just disheartening. People never cease asking me about my dating life. It never ends. An old friend of mine asked this not too long ago. My cousin who has a fiancee kept saying things like this over and over as if he didn't care about anything other than that recently. My mom said it over the phone while I was in college recently. And just today, my parents' friend says it. I get that it's supposed to be friendly, but I find it kind of strange. Like what the hell am I supposed to say? "Nope, no boys." It just disgusts me, and makes me sad to hear. It just makes me feel like I've gone through nearly 20 years of my life just for people to care about a non existent guy over me. And maybe I'm crazy for thinking this, but it just really bothers me because I feel like I would have brought the topic up on my own if I had gotten a boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Everyone wants to know when you are getting a boyfriend, then married, then kids, then when they start school, graduate, go to college, get a job, get married, and have kids.

[Confidentandchill]

Hmm that is strange. I think you should just worry about enjoying your own life. :)

[Berethor]

They worried about you being alone.