Like a woman who is a little overweight , earns 50k a year, still lives a home at 27 expect their partner to earn over 100k, have an athletic body, be over 6ft tall, own an expensive place, drive a nice car and more.
My point is a lot women expect a high value man even if they're not high value themselves. I understand guys can improve themselves by learning more skills, improving their career , working out etc but only to a certain extent. Not every guy can work a high paying job as they're is not enough high paying jobs available for the entire male population over 25. My point also applies for the luxury houses and cars. There is not enough material for every guy to own these items every guy can have an athletic body as it mainly due to good genetics. Obviously and dieting and exercising helps but it is a lot harder for those not born with good genetics.
A YouTube video that explains this issue well is Rebecca Lynn who is a matchmaker who quotes about how there's women who aren't even half of what they expect in a man.