Who do I feel jealous that my friends are with guys that move mountains for them?

[Anonymous]

My date texted me at last minute to tell me he couldn't come and i had to walk in -30 conditions and paying for a hotel for th night

[Anonymous]

Because you aren’t finding men that move mountains for you. To which I’d say step back and focus on yourself. You are on your own journey and your trip may not include finding the right guy at this time. If you keep dating with intention though, he will come along.

[Asker]

im worried that im turning 30 in August although i look very young for my age but im scared if i dont find anyone nice

[Opinion Owner]

A man is not the priority, remember that. Yes it is nice, but the main focus of your life is living it the best you can, with or without a guy. Trust me I had to really step back, stop focusing on my friends and their relationships because it was too upsetting. I turned 30 last year, met my current boyfriend in December and it has been my healthiest relationship ever! But I didn’t find him until I stopped looking for a man, and stopped feeling shitty Bc my friends were getting married and having kids and stuff.

[Stevefiveo]

You deserve a real man that will move mountains for you and not leave you stranded. Jealous is to be expected but when you find a good guy, then hopefully sometimes they will be jealous of you. ;)

[TenkRealist]

Because the grass is always greener on the other side.