Why do much older men treat a girl better?

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That seems to be my experience, and I wonder why this is. Is it because they are more desperate? I doubt it’s genuine, but it still feels very nice.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Well it is what it feels like and it is real when an older guy gets to a certain age his wisdom has grown so much and he actually has become a little bit more mature and he knows what he wants he knows how to treat a woman he knows out to make her feel what she needs to feel to be happy when your teenagers a girl is always smarter and more mature I mean all the way up until their forties and that's probably when a man starts to grow up and become mature in himself and each year that he gets older and becomes more wiser you becomes more aware have a lot of things the odds are that he doesn't want to meet women his age if he still young at heart depending on his environment he's going to meet younger women and when he does he knows all the mistakes that he is made he is much more mature much more wiser and if those two people get along did he knows exactly what he wants and he knows exactly how he wants to treat a woman because he wants to give all of himself to her it's when a man really has become himself and it's being honest and I think a lot of women understand that and they know that and they look and they feel safe with the guy and they know that the guy will take care of them

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Maybe they treat girls that they are interested in better. They know what they want and they also know what they DON'T want. That means instead of treating someone badly because she isn't the way they want her, they just move on, leave her alone, and only interact with the girls they are actually interested in. They often don't want to waste their time changing someone to be how they want, and they have enough life experience to know that people generally don't change their morals, views, etc.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I think because different generations were brought up under different social norms. Older people seem to have been brought up where manners were more abundant and you were stigmatized by acting a certain way.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Because they know the minute they stop the money and pampering from flowing, so does the relationship

Whatever2929292 · Answer

I have no idea... No clue. I think it depends on the man really. Some men are bad men. Others are good. Some are super creepy and you know they are just wanting sex and always make creepy comments but want to be a "nice guy"

Asu926 · Answer

Experience. I was a dick to everyone, but especially the people I dated until the past few years. I had to get over my own insecurities to realize that and fix it.

ColHathi · Answer

If nothing else, I would imagine that you generally just become more caring and doting with age.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Life experience. They've seen what works and what doesn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Because younger males are boys and are driven by hormones and lack the knowledge of women and how women work. Older men are not desperate, men gain sexual power after 30 while women lose it.

genericname85 · Answer

older people have better social skills. that's why.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Are older men systematic abusers and manipulators or do they treat women better? I can’t keep up with this

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Because they are more confident in themselves, have more experience, and are less likely to use her

serious · Answer

Maybe because they will be more mature.

clemdenim · Answer

Not desperate, experience teaches

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