My sisters boyfriend told me he liked me, I don’t feel the same way at all. I should tell my sister right?

[Anonymous]

He talked to me a lot when I was with him and my sister and he realised he liked me more and found me more attractive…… I told him I don’t feel the same at all

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+1 y

Im gonna tell her, I’ll update what happens

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+1 y

I’ve told her and she’s heartbroken but refuses to break up with him. Saying she could change him to be attracted to her. She doesn’t want me around them anymore which is gonna be awkward cause I live with her and he comes over.
Oh well, my sister is gonna get really badly hurt but I’ve done my part. (He just messaged me last night that my profile picture is really pretty and that he wish he meet me first….. I’ve blocked him now)

[bones_20]

Well yeah you should tell her but whether you do or don’t is your choice. He obviously doesn’t respect her and doesn’t love her if he’s trying to get with someone else. You just have to decide if you respect her enough to tell her she’s wasting her time.

[Asker]

I’m just scared it will hurt her too much but it will also hurt her if I don’t tell her, I’m stuck

[bones_20]

I completely get that but It’s better she knows the truth now rather then finding out later on. She deserves to know she’s with someone who isn’t into her and would highly likely cheat. It’s a really shitty situation but just think if you were the one wasting your time with someone who wasn’t interested in you, wouldn’t you want to know the truth?

[Asker]

I’ll tell her

[dustybiker]

Good for you being honest. You know your sister best. It’s up to you to make that decision.

[Nawlins34]

Tell her, because you don't want him wasting her time.

Honestly, you don't have a choice, you HAVE to, to protect the relationship you have with your sister, because if she finds you knew... whoa buddy.

[Nawlins34]

*after reading your update*

Hey, exactly - as a sister, you've done your part. The only thing you can do be ready to hug her when that house of cards collapse.

Be safe and good luck.

[Asker]

I've put my sister first in this situation. That’s all that matters. He is trying to find ways to contact me and meet up with me without my sister knowing….. it’s getting really bad

[crossdressingrihno]

Yeah a man who is willing to cheat with his girlfriends sister ain't a man

[Asker]

You are so right

[crossdressingrihno]

Tell your sister and let her know to not give up on finding love

[crossdressingrihno]

I'm a hypocrite but my sagely advice is still worth spreading

[crossdressingrihno]

I'm not a hypocrite because of cheating though I'm a hypocrite because I kind of gave up

[laraWM]

Good you made it clear to one another
I think he keeps it that way and he let it go, I won't tell anyone because it can happen you feel something for someone you shouldn't

[20yearsolder]

I think so, that way your sister knows that she's dating a scumbag

[20yearsolder]

Ask your sister why you're the one that just getting punished, you not being allowed to be around them. You did nothing wrong. He should not be around you

[Asker]

I completely agree

[Whatever2929292]

Hell no. That is your sisters boyfriend and you should tell her what he said!!!

[Whatever2929292]

Great he will cheat on her if he is willing to cheat with you

[Asker]

He actually asked if I wanted to hook up with him when my sister went out of the room to go to the toilet, he said he would meet up with me later if I wanted. I just kept telling him I would never ever go there with him

[Whatever2929292]

That is super creepy. Yea you should tell her for sure and tell her that part too that you would never do that.

[Asker]

I’ll tell her everything

[Whatever2929292]

I am really sorry I am heartbroken for you both. I am sure telling her was no easy task. I think maybe you should also tell him that you have blocked him and are super creeped out by him and you told your sister everything and that if he knows what is best for him to stay the fuck away from you.

I am so sorry about that I am sure creeped out is a understatement for what you must feel. You can't control her though if she stays with him but only Jesus can change someone and someone has to make that choice

On our own we can't help someone who doesn't want the help

[Whatever2929292]

But you HAVE done your part. The only thing you can do is protect yourself at this point. As well as to let both of them know that you want nothing to do with him. I am sure that you love your sister and want what is best for her. But you just can't force someone to change either.

Maybe after a while she will realize this. Also let your sister know that you would never do something like that to her which is why you told her about it. I hope that she knows that you are not that kind of person

[Asker]

He is such a creep and he is also a lot older than me. We did get along, but I’m just nice to everyone in general and he took that the wrong way. I didn’t flirt in any way whatsoever.
I don’t even wanna write some of the creepy things he has said to me, it’s so disturbing.
I feel like I’m getting punished for his gross actions by getting told I have to stay away from them.

[Asker]

My sister knows I would never go there with him. She definitely knows that.
He should be the one to stay away from me

[Whatever2929292]

Look he should be staying away from you. You should not have to change your day around just to avoid him. I am so sorry he said that stuff to you. I try and be nice to people too but you don't have to let someone be a creep to you.

Now if he said something that kind of creeped you out then you can tell him that you did not like that. But if he is saying overtly creepy stuff then yea MAJOR problem. You are not the one doing anything wrong.

If he is for instance sending you nude photos you might be able to go to the police and have indecent exposure charges filed or something like that. He should NOT be saying creepy stuff and knowing now that he wants to try and sleep with you he is in the wrong.

You should not be punished for anything you are right the creep better stay the FUCK away from you if he knows what is best for him. I hope that you can stand up for yourself.

Next time he contacts you or finds new ways to contact you once he sees you blocked him. Tell him directly that you would not like to speak with him ever again. That what is between him and your sister is between them and that he needs to stay away from you. Again I am so so sorry about that

[Whatever2929292]

I am so sorry that is fucked up. You should tell your sister to keep him away from you. As well as show her the creepy stuff that was said.

[Whatever2929292]

I feel you. I really do you should not be forced to have someone intrude in your OWN house. and now you have to be around them. That just SUCKS

[Asker]

He is trying to find ways to contact me and meet up with me….. it’s getting so bad. I don't know what to do at this stage

[Whatever2929292]

Tell him that if he does not leave you alone save everything or else you are getting a order of protection and follow through with it. I am really sorry that you are going through this

[Whatever2929292]

Some people just can't take NO for a answer

[Shamalien]

Show her the messages and give her the strength to dump this fucker

[mantelk]

Tell your sister ofcourse. Fuck this guy.

[mantelk]

I am not saying have sex with him lol. I am saying forget this asshole. Lots of sluts on this website, they'd probably think I am saying have sex.

[Asker]

Hahahah of course you ain’t saying that. You are saying stuff him

[Mate100]

Yeah tell your sister about it

[Wise4myage]

Wise move, she deserves to know.

[boggboss]

I would