I'm here, left with a question that can't be answered. There was this guy I really liked, and I remember he fooled me by him telling me he liked me. Whether true or not. Time goes on. Nothing was going nowhere. Literally, he came over to have cuddle with me, which later on in the months turned to sex. Had trouble just getting a response from him sometimes, because "work was overly busy." Bullshit cards. I got ghosted.
This ghoster comes back in my life, feeling absolutely bad for letting a good girl go. He was devestated, I guess. Telling me how much he let a good girl go. That he thought of our chemistry around the holidays. How much he missed our movie nights, this and that. Again, nothing ever outside my apartment. Constantly begged me for second chances. Gave me his time of day, texting me every day which was very new of him to do to me.
After he ghosted me, I never viewed him the same. He ghosted me through a time I was going through a lot. He knows this. He told me he "felt bad for thinking he ghosted me." Yet I smacked him in the face in text, saying he did ghost me..
I couldn't handle him anymore. I knew things weren't going to work in the long run. I put myself back out there to date, and I JUST got in a relationship.
A few days ago, he added me on Snapchat. Deleted me, and I thought... I told this guy that I found somebody, because I have. While I was in the middle of dating him, going on multiple dates. Not officially boyfriend/girlfriend. WHY is he trying to play this game with me?
Did it get my attention? Yes. Am I going to reach out though he's blocked? No.
GUYS. I KNOW THIS IS DUMB OF ME, BUT I'VE LEARNED A LOT FROM THIS RECENT PERSON. ONCE SOMEBODY GHOST, YOU CAN'T CHANGE NOTHING. Please be nice, yet honest. Thanks :)
This ghoster comes back in my life, feeling absolutely bad for letting a good girl go. He was devestated, I guess. Telling me how much he let a good girl go. That he thought of our chemistry around the holidays. How much he missed our movie nights, this and that. Again, nothing ever outside my apartment. Constantly begged me for second chances. Gave me his time of day, texting me every day which was very new of him to do to me.
After he ghosted me, I never viewed him the same. He ghosted me through a time I was going through a lot. He knows this. He told me he "felt bad for thinking he ghosted me." Yet I smacked him in the face in text, saying he did ghost me..
I couldn't handle him anymore. I knew things weren't going to work in the long run. I put myself back out there to date, and I JUST got in a relationship.
A few days ago, he added me on Snapchat. Deleted me, and I thought... I told this guy that I found somebody, because I have. While I was in the middle of dating him, going on multiple dates. Not officially boyfriend/girlfriend. WHY is he trying to play this game with me?
Did it get my attention? Yes. Am I going to reach out though he's blocked? No.
GUYS. I KNOW THIS IS DUMB OF ME, BUT I'VE LEARNED A LOT FROM THIS RECENT PERSON. ONCE SOMEBODY GHOST, YOU CAN'T CHANGE NOTHING. Please be nice, yet honest. Thanks :)
