We’ve been on and off for years why did he do this to me?

[Anonymous]

It’s been 8 years and 3 kids
He left for good until last January told me I was his soul mate he was so in love. He cried to his friend he loved me so much and it was perfect etc and said we are having the best sex of his life

By April we were fighting. By October fully split.

He did the same thing this January I was his soul mate. He didn’t tell many people we were together

Then April split

He now left me for someone else. Years ago he did the same thing. Expect she didn’t want him and came crawling back to me.

Was I alwuas jsut there to keep until he got someone else?

Alwuas there when doesn’t have someone

It’s just how he is

[midnightmoon05]

Because you let him.

you answered your own question…when he get someone new…he will be gone.
no marriage after 1 kid? Then more kids with him with no commitment? Means you don’t hold any standard for yourself. You are letting him walk all over you.
work on getting yourself together and kick him out of your life…get child support from him?

[Anonymous]

I've been in such a scenario where I was hurt in a big way early on, nievely gave a second chance, same thing. At that point, now I just wanted to, in a legal way, drive her to insanity so she could feel pain and know, how I imagine all this truly narcissistic womans exs likely felt at her hands. There was no love. Only opportunities to abandon her at moments when she was in no financial state to support herself. She took a good apart of who i was, I took her sanity

[strateguy632]

he liked you except for the arguments