Should I hide my relationship if my mom doesn’t want me to date?

[Anonymous]

[Alexis1313]

There's nothing more painful than a life unlived.

Either lie about it, or tell her and disobey, it's your life.

I'd lie though so the guy doesn't get treated like some kinda predator.

[LazerBean]

No, it's not worth it. Especially since you're under 18, it's not like you're likely to find something meaningful anyway.

[Wise4myage]

I say no, because hiding relationships can be very stressful.

[Anonymous]

What's her reason for not wanting you to date?

[Asker]

She said that I was too young and she didn’t want me to get heart broken.

[Opinion Owner]

Have a very very open relationship and make sure you are not broken hearted even if something happens. If you can't do that, then wait.

[Asker]

I am in a relationship right now and we have almost been dating for 2 months but I don’t want to break up with them. My mom wants us to break up but I just can’t.

[Opinion Owner]

How long has your mom been knowing that you date, and how soon did she start opposing?

[Asker]

I hid it from her for a month until recently I told her the truth and she told me that I needed to break up with my boyfriend. I am scared that she is going to force me to break up with him.

[Opinion Owner]

What exactly is the relationship about? Are you just very close friends? And what country are you in?

[Asker]

Me and my boyfriend are dating and we really don’t want to break up because we really love and care for each other. I live in Canada

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, so not really a country where human rights are severely abused.

Be good friends. There is nothing wrong with that.
Why is she worried?
Sexy stuff can wait until 15. If you promise to your mom you want have sex, what will she say?

[Opinion Owner]

You won't have*

[Asker]

she would still want me and my boyfriend to break up even if I tell her we won’t do the sexy stuff.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell her "only a closed heart can break" or "when it breaks is when love will begin to flow" JK. I don't think I have anything to say.

[Asker]

that’s okay. I am scared though but thank you for giving me advice.

[BillyBalls]

How old are you?

[Asker]

I am 14

[BillyBalls]

I can see her not wanting to date because of your age.

Maybe let her know you are interested in a person and see how she reacts.

[clemdenim]

tough call