True or false: unattractive guys will struggle with dating no matter how much they work on personality, confidence etc?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[PastorJohn69]

Only true if he chases shallow and superficial women. Looks is the initial attraction that gets your attention, but what is there to keep someone around. If sex is only answer, then wr could add a high need for self gratification to the list.
A person who has heart and good morals and personality could date Quasimodo.
If you look like Mick Jagger and you feel you deserve a Cosmo girl, then you better join a band.
Of you want to be happy and not alone, lower your aim a little and in 10 years, you will realize you made the right choice

[Anonymous]

False the main problem in those guys are usually their personality, they're too negative and only think badly of all women no matter what she say or do and when she do something good he would just say she's lying.
Like if he want to date a virgin and she say she's a virgin he's gonna call her a liar. They like insulting women for slutty behavior but when they find a good one they say there's something wrong with her that she's lying.
How many time I talked to those kind of guy and they don't believe me when I say I'm a virgin because I'm a 23 years old woman.

[Asker]

So you’re saying that all guys who can’t get dates or are a virgin are like that?

[Anonymous]

If anyone lets themselves go they will be unattractive. You have to offer something to be wanted. You yourself will have likes and dislikes in others. I’m sure you would pass up the greasy girl in the corner yourself.

[Asker]

I meant physically unattractive guys. As in genetically unlucky.

[mahdi_n]

Unattractive guys usually have much better personal qualities because thats how they've learned to live in society.
So during the "get to know each other phase" of dating they truly have a better chance;
BUT before they reach that part they need to pass the "introduction phase" of dating. Walking up to a girl and asking them out...

This part is where they lack skill, confidence, and usually get rejected.

[Asker]

Why is that?

[mahdi_n]

Everyone learns to look at life through their abilities and disabilities.

When we lack physical qualities, we try to cover it with mental ones. We become the straight A student.

[Anonymous]

Women are so delusional. They simply will not admit to the way they are.