True or false: average looking, average height shy guys will struggle with dating no matter how interesting they are/how good their personality is?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Adaeva]

There is the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of women believe only 20 percent of men are acceptable. If true, then 80 percent of men are limited to the remaining 20 percent of the women which means about 60 percent of men must do without because 60 percent of women choose to do without.

[Asker]

Do you think this is true?

[Adaeva]

I believe the marriage rate to too high for that to be true. Nevertheless, I understand in an OKCupid survey women believe 80 percent of men are below average.

[Asker]

That might be because people are meeting offline though.

[LazerBean]

Being socially inept is always a setback, regardless of gender.

[Asker]

What if they’re just shy around new people?

[LazerBean]

Thats most people. I don't even consider that shy.

[Asker]

Do looks or ethnicity matter on dating?

[LazerBean]

Not generally, unless you're hideous.

[Asker]

What about online?

[Intothevoid666]

Looks and ethnicity def matter to women don’t listen to her. She is delusional

[Intothevoid666]

It depends what type of women they go after if they have a low sex drive and go for women with a low sex drive they will do alright if they have a high sex drive bad go for women with a high sex drive they will def struggle

[TrueConfection]

I voted True because if they're shy they will have difficulty even asking a girl for a date.

[Subarugirl]

That’s completely false

[Asker]

Do you think looks or ethnicity matters in online dating?

[Subarugirl]

Online dating and real life are two completely different things….

[Asker]

Yes. That’s true. I’m asking about online in this case.

[Subarugirl]

So you’re asking if looks matter on a visual platform designed to attract people by looks?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Subarugirl]

Local that’s like asking if looks matter in the modeling industry lol

[Asker]

So looks matter as much in online dating as it does in the modelling industry lol?

[Subarugirl]

If you want to be successful… yeah

[Asker]

Interesting. Do you think this goes for both males and females?

[Subarugirl]

Do you think that men and women want a partner that they are physically attracted to?

[Asker]

Yes. But attracted to and attractive are 2 different things.

[Subarugirl]

Yeah if you are attracted to them you find them attractive…