Well, what do you think?

[Anonymous]

This guy that I met on a dating app talks well w me, we've met twice and it went great. Now, I don't know it was a date as he didn't call it a date when we asked me to meet him twice. We spoke about each other's lives and didn't particularly flirt. Over text whenever I flirt w him, his response is "lets see" but he calls himself a dirty minded person/bad boy. If that's the case why isn't he flirting back? I mean we aren't friends as we met on a dating app
I asked him to prove it to me that he's not a good guy and he said "I wouldn't ask that if I were you", I was like I'm still not convinced and asked him to prove it to me and his response was "let's see". And now I'm really confused on how to proceed w him

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Well I didn't notice the typos that I made while typing, I'm sorry for that lol

[Espresso-Grande]

No wonder you're confused.

It would be such a turn off for me if a guy labelled himself as a "badboy". It's an immature comment , as well as a red flag.

He's not giving you direct answer, so in my opinion, he's playing mind games with you. He's making sure he's in control. I wouldn't let him to that to you. You should date or meet up with a guy who let's you know where you stand. Not a guy who makes you feel confused about his intentions

By the way don't worry about typos. No one is more expert at typos than me 😂

[Asker]

Ikrrr, I can't seem to. figure out if he's interested. He's on a trip w his family rn and I'm planning to ask him when he gets back but until then I don't know what to do😭

[Espresso-Grande]

I totally get it. There's nothing worse than feeling confused about someone's intentions. Have a serious talk with him when you speak to him again. If he still fails to give you a direct answer, I would distance yourself. If he has good intentions, he will be honest and upfront