What do y’all think?

[sd1223]

He claims he doesn’t have any feelings for me. But he asked me about my plans for the future. He said since he feels I’ve been loyal to him he was saying I could come work for him helping him do tasks and to help me make some more money. I thought that was so sweet of him. And he said he knows of an apartment that I could move to, that’s half the rent I’m paying now. The apartment is also in the same town where he’s from and closer to the area that he stays in. But I was blown away that he would want to put me on to something like that to help me out. What do you guys think though?

[Guy13]

Yeah, he's in denial or really scared of relationships

[Guy13]

Why don't you talk about your bucket List next time you see him.. places and things that you want to do... ask him about his. And finally, what do you like doing locally... ask him. If he does not ask you out by then then you know he is leaning towards friendship.

[sd1223]

I got that feeling too and he kind of confirmed it. He brought up how his ex cheated on him that he dated for 2 years. And he said he feels like people can change or switch up on you in the blink of an eye and he said that’s why nothing will happen between us and why he says for me to do what I want to do. He’s still broken from when he got cheated on and he did tell me early on that he had trust issues.

But when I told him that I want can’t claim his as my man he asked me “haven’t I been inside you” and I said yes and he was kind of like well ok then. He said he wouldn’t stop messing with me unless he died or he just decided he wanted to be apart from me or something like that. And he tells me I don’t have to worry about other girls so I don't know.

[Wise4myage]

He definitely has feelings for you, but it just be for friendship purposes?

[sd1223]

I don't know the fact that he’s pitching me a place that’s closer to where he is and offering me to work for him that’s a lot. It could be but I don't know and he said he feels I’ve been loyal to him.