Guys: Does age matter to you when you date a woman?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating for about 4 months. I have a bit of a conflict though because all the suitors or guys that have approached me are always younger than me. I am 32 and the guys im talking about are always between the ages of 23-27. I want to keep an open mind but sometimes it’s impossible for me not to notice there is a difference in the way we think and it takes me back to remember that the guy sitting in front of me is younger. Anyway, this situation led me to this question. Do guys don’t care about women’s age when they like her or what? Why would a guy date someone older?

[Horror_lover92]

Sometimes I feel like age doesn't matter unless they really think I look like they're age, many of times I will have guys that are 18 or 19 flirt with me and a few had crushes on me, and every time it's, " oh wow your 30? You don't even look it. I thought you were at least 19 or 20. " the only younger guy I ever dated was 5 years younger than me when I was 25 years old. I just feel like they just feel the same when some young women find older men attractive.
Til this day I still don't know why I had a huge crush on this guy that was 40 when I was 17. Nothing special about him, he had a dad bod, no muscle tone. Just a regular guy with blue eyes and blonde hair. Didn't have a lot of money, extremely cheap lol and stubborn with his money. He always wore sweatpants and plain t-shirts, but I still liked him lol

[MCheetah]

Yes. Especially if a man wants kids. I want a woman between 23 and 30, ideally. I'd go a little younger, like 21 at the youngest, and I'd go a little older, like 34, but I really don't want a woman outside of that.

Not to mention, while I may technically be 35, I act more like 24-26 and still feel fairly young. Most women act their age and it's rare to get a 34 year old woman who still acts 24 (especially when that tends to be a bad age range for women, anyway). Most women are at their peak between 20 and 25, while most men are at their peak between 35 and 40. Young women are beautiful, but generally morons. While older men are mature and financially well off, but... You know, old.

25 to 30 is probably the best place you could "meet in the middle" but life rarely works out that way.

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

1. Age matters. She must be over 25 when the brain is fully baked and formed. I like chics but I don't eat raw chicken.
2. You are mature enough to notice the differences instead of ignoring them. Our goals, standards, priorities can completely change from teen to 25. They can still after but not as likely or extreme for most people. You seem to be smart and those priorities are kicking in to protect the rest of you.
3. No way is that girl in the picture you. If it is you are going to have a hard time. Your beauty is going to draw a lot of bugs to swat away.

[molonski2]

Ohh HELL yeah , the woman being older? NO WAY , this is simply the sign of an insecure idiot , long term the only thing that remotely works is the man being much older. These " boys " as time goes on , insecure fools , will dump you quite simply like a hot spud.

One of my first lovers was 27 , and I was 18 , that was great for sexual training , and she was HOT -- years and years later I saw her -- ARE YOU KIDDING ! no possible way , sadly women do far worse long term , they only excel when every guy wants to boont them.
The " use by " date is massive , you need to be ovulating..

[oliver4love]

Age is not a matter if you both understand each other emotions, but in age gap I mean if the guy younger then you may be sure she attract to you physically more then emotionally not every guy have this nature but some have and if he loves your from heart ♥ in future sure it's a good relationship for life time...

[OpenClose]

If she's attractive, she's attractive. I don't really care. I only really care about her age insofar as it affects her attractiveness. If I find her attractive, that's clearly not a problem.

I mean I guess if she's too much older, it starts to run into problems since her libido is probably about to drop off a cliff. But that's about it.

[ohshee]

When I was younger way younger chefs who I meant women that were way older . I liked them because they weren't shy they new what they wanted.. it seems like they have evolved. Because now young women have done the same thing

I think really it's all in timing it's just a moment in time . And in that moment anything can happen . And when it does there is a spark and you want to experience it with every experience there becomes knowledge growth happiness.

[Anonymous]

Women are generally more "selective" in general with everything about a partner lol.

But if it's an issue for you, my suggestion is do some approaching yourself! Especially if a certain guy interests you. Don't wait for him, he may never (for any and all the same reasons women won't).

[LiamSawyer]

I enjoy being with an older female that is more mature then girls my age and I can have intelligent conversations with. I'll be 27 in a few days and often find women in your age range more attractive for this reason.

[Reaper1985]

date collected from online dating platforms shows that most couples have somewhere between a 3 to15 year age gap between them. all that really matters is their both of sound body and mind along with being legal age to consent really.

[IJhonnyI]

Hell no not for me unless she like granny old. basically any where from 20 something and lower but not too low either lowest I'd say 17

[Clowr]

Earlier yeah. Then I had a limit of 3 years younger or 3 years older. Now I don't care. I got older. My misses is 9 years older then me.

[Avicenna]

You’re at an age where it’s not yet a problem for you to be older than your partner. But guys do care more the older you get.

[HighValue]

I only want to date for a long term relationship and to create and raise a family (kids) together. I have no interest in a woman past 30.

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah age matters to me as long as they are older than me it's all good

I date older because they are on my level mentally and are generally less liberal in my experience

[notwoke]

As men get older they understand the perils of dating women beyond their late twenties. younger men haven't figured it our yet. You'd probably be harder pressed to get a 33 year old man as he has seen the light if he has anything upstairs

[Berethor]

Most guys prefer girls who are younger than themselves.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I prefer to be with someone who I relate to, usually I relate more to women who were born in the 1990s, but exceptions exist.

[Fireguy17]

Not really.
Too young you don't have much in common, older that you, you might just be used for a sex toy.

[Guy13]

Yes. 5-7 years younger as I get better looking and more desired as I age.

[Guy13]

I need someone 7ish years younger with a later life confidence of “still got it.. we still look good together” standing in front formal mirror at country club for Make-a-Wish auction….

[jshm2]

Yes.

But it depends what type of relationship you want.

[Anonymous]

Are they surprised to find out your age? Maybe you "act" younger than you are.
I'm not going to say doesn't matter at all. But I try NOT to focus so much on her age and more on where we're at in life.

[Intothevoid666]

I would never seriously date an older girl tbh. I’ve never had a serious relationship and I’m not starting my first one with a girl who is over 20. It feels gross and weird otherwise.

[Anonymous]

I personally prefer a younger woman. Yes looks is part of it but also she usually has less emotional baggage.

But if you can date younger guys the more power to you.

[one1wild00]

I prefer dating gals and seeing potential mates in the Child bearing years of 18-mid 30's if it goes into having kids and a relationship.

[killarney]

Age is definitely only a number, look at how many people unfortunately die young and life is what you make of it, enjoy it and never worry about age or age difference

[Imsmurter1]

Well I’m 32 and would date a 32 year old woman. I’m ok with going up to 34 but after that no unless she looks young for her age

[DevinAM]

Only a little because ideally I'd end up in a relationship with someone who I can start a family with the old fashioned way otherwise age gap isn't important to me.

[Pudsmucker]

A good friend is 4 years Jr to his wife. It does not matter if you truly love someone.

[Jamie05rhs]

The ones who care about age care. The ones who do not care about age do not care.

[Zolly99999]

Age is just a number.. it means nothing to me.. never did.

[Sparkie460]

Age is just a number. As long as you have a bond who cares about age.

[Twalli]

I will date someone within 10 years of my age. My girlfriend is 5.5 years older than me.

[bamesjond0069]

If the womans older its just for casual dating and sex or i think some guys hope for a sugar mama.

[Guardian45]

As long as you're NOT a pedo and you can pull it off, then more power to you, Sister!

[Slim57]

Nah as long as she's 18 plus and mature, I've dated: 4 years older, 14 years older, 2 years younger, and I'm dating 3 years younger now

[RobEurope]

Not so much for me. Im fine with an age difference.

[exitseven]

I think ten years either way is okjay.

[anylolone]

As long as she's an adult...

[TrillXHippy]

You should already know that age matters

[AFretiredTXn]

So what is your problem?

[BLP11520]

No unless it is many years

[Jackson619]

Nope as long as she in her 20 nit shy

[Anonymous]

I bet he was the one who asked you out

[Anonymous]

I dont date women are sex objects

[Waldoe]

SEX.

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

İ love young men

[edward718]

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