Why are you single?

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Why are you single?

OpenClose · Accepted Answer

This was just asked, but I don't care because I love this question.

I used to think girls didn't like me. Either that I was ugly, not confident enough, not interesting enough, or intimidating.

But after reflecting on my dating life, I discovered it's simply a matter of insufficient exposure. After years on ADHD meds, I got pretty good at keeping myself company and developing lots of solitary hobbies. So I tend to lack motivation to get out.

Similarly, most of my friend groups in college dissolved. So I don't have the networking opportunities I used to. And the best way to meet new partners is through friends. People like to talk about cold-opens and pick-up lines, but those are apparently in the vast minority. Certainly the vast minority of lasting relationships.

My other problem is that I'm rather niche. I'm not much into sports and celebrity gossip. So it's a little hard to establish a common topic to cling on to.

But also, I generally prefer girls who are kinda niche themselves.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

? Okay, here we go again... I'm short (biggest reason). Overweight. Dark skinned. Ugly. Unwilling to simp or be a foot rug for a woman. Haven't found too many good single women out there.

Bubbles16 · Accepted Answer

I think a couple reasons I don't have a boyfriend is 1. There weren't a ton of cute guys at my high school and I was too scared to talk too the ones that were cute 2. I'm really shy and have terrible anxiety and 3. Cute boys from tv shows and movies I've seen have just raised my standards insanely high and probably unreachable

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

When my last relationship ended I just wanted to take it easy for a while with no drama so I have a friends with benefits now.

ChrisMike1919 · Answer

That's a tough question...
Maybe cause I've always been, maybe cause I'm poor, maybe cause I'm afraid to be involved with someone, maybe cause I don't know how to behave with a girl, there are a lot of maybe's and a lot of unanswered questions that are just mind-eating.

OldWorldOrder · Answer

Because women serve no vital function in my life. They bring more problems than solutions, and I really don't have much to offer women on an individual basis either. I'm not as thirsty as most guys, and I don't really get "lonely," so I'm content with my hobbies and traveling.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women at this age have been through the gauntlet of dicks. If she wants a relationship with me it's probably that she has at least one child she wants me to put through college (or provide bail money for lol.). Or she has a lot of debt and she's looking for a revenue stream. Most women at my age if not married are basically prostitutes. Relationships are almost purely transactional to them as they're too angry and jaded and full of toxicity to have a normal relationship anymore.

greentealatte · Answer

Covid made me a bit antisocial and lose all my game. Trying to get back into it now...

Marianna546 · Answer

I don't like meeting new people in real life i love being by myself. Also guys mostly on instagram wanted sex and nothing else... the desperation :(

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I am single because I usually talk with girls online they are mostly far away from other countries.. they either stopped/ ghosted me after talking with me for few days/weeks and here I'm single as usual. 😒😒

CubsterShura · Answer

Because it's only been a few days since my last relationship ended lol.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Cause I want to be and I'm not ready to be involved with someone right now

ErikaBeexd · Answer

i will answer this question after i broke up with my boyfriend lol

IJhonnyI · Answer

Cause I wanna be and I'm ugly but want a pretty female 😂🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Because Im one of the worlds most shallow person there is. Im a 1000x more in love with the looks of the girl than anything and everything else.

Nobody chooses who or what people are atracted to. I turned out shallow.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It's only been a week. Bitch accused me of a lot of bad stuff.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I'm super depressed I've been distancing myself away from people...

Jerre · Answer

Because I want to be single. Love. Fucking different girls.

1GoldTwins · Answer

I don't do anything to meet new people.

serious · Answer

There are N number of reasons I have.

Blackcosmo · Answer

I'm too young and lack experience.

Loveisgirthy · Answer

Not a choice but a lifestyle

annoyingpidgon · Answer

Bcz I'm ugly.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

You tell me

Anonymous · Answer

Short, fat, balding, and autistic.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’m not

LazyProphet · Answer

Mental illness 😒

Fuentes · Answer

By choice

Okaydtguug · Answer

I’m not single

CenckKováč · Answer

I don't know

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